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Paper Clouds Featured Artist

Paper Clouds Apparel is selling shirts, greeting cards and 8×10 prints with our son’s designs on them!
These are available from March 4-17.

Paper Clouds Apparel collects artwork from individuals with special needs, and puts those designs on shirts, greeting cards & 8×10 prints, and sells them for a 2-week period. 50% of the proceeds go to the school or special needs organization of the artist’s choice. The proceeds from our 2-week block will be going to A Total Approach.

A Total Approach has been so instrumental in helping us understand our son’s needs and to be able to help him. We’re happy to have this small way to give back to them as an expression of gratitude for their help.

Stop by the Paper Clouds apparel website and check out our guy’s designs and make a purchase if you’re able.
Thank you for your support!
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Wordless Wednesday

Brief background -
Dear Son asked if he could use a Sharpie to make a face on his hand.
I said yes.
Cute, right?

Little Sister was standing by, listening.
She never asked about using Sharpie for a picture on her hand.
I think she understood my “yes” to him as a “yes” for her as well.
She didn’t get to finish coloring her index finger because her marker mess was starting to get onto a few things around her - nothing major, but I wanted to stop the marker mess.
She’s now convinced that her index finger will be cold as it’s not colored completely.
Well played, little children. Well played.
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Catching Up…Moving Ahead

We’ve had a relatively non-busy week, in terms of things we had scheduled. However, we’ve had some good things happening, too, and I wanted to highlight those.

Picasso finished his picture for the Arts for Autism fundraiser we’re attending in town, on October 15th. He has a *strong* love for Sharpies (used on his bed, bathroom cabinets, back of door, walls - despite my best attempts at hiding them), and this seemed like the perfect opportunity to let him go all out with colored Sharpies for a good cause . He drew this hot rod and then decided he wanted it matted and framed. The mat and frame were his choice. The blue frame was what he wanted as that’s the color that Autism Speaks has chosen to associate with autism awareness. Insightful!
Mozart lost a tooth! I think he wanted to keep up with his brother & sister and not miss out on the tooth fairy visits. He hasn’t lost a tooth in quite awhile, so this was a nice treat for him.
Over the weekend we took the kids to a local farm that has a lot of harvest activities for families. We’ve done all of the activities except the 5-acre corn maze. Saturday was a beautiful day and we decided to attempt the corn maze and choose a pumpkin. Short legs seem to take a little longer to get through the maze, so it took a little over an hour, but we followed the paths and had a really fun time! Below is a picture of the maze we walked through. The kids enjoyed knowing that we were “in the A” or “walking on the edge of the maple leaf”.

Starting tomorrow, we have Picasso’s next 10-day occupational therapy intensive. The schedule has been prepared for Picasso using a full-month calendar, with the dates & times of therapy typed out in the colors he chose for each therapist. I made my quick-reference guide for the fridge.

(It’s hard to tell, but Zach’s and Anna’s names are different colors - red and pink).

I have some meals prepared and in the freezer for those nights when it may be tough to prepare a meal. I have other “quick fixes” that I can easily pull out and make for them. Meals during these 10 days need to be easy as we’re gone for 3-4 hours each day and may go through some severe emotional ups and downs resulting in a lack of dinner prep time. It’s nice to have some healthy options set aside and in mind - definitely something I learned while going through the first couple intensives. I love learning these extras along the way, to be more prepared next time. I’m always looking for ways to simplify life!

I also have help for those times when kids’ schedules overlap. Scheduling his intensive doesn’t just mean receiving the times from the therapy center and arriving for those hours. It means shuffling online classes with the boys’ teachers, getting kids to and from other already-scheduled appointments, dropping kids off with grandparents on some of the days where we’re away for 4 hours so they don’t have to miss online classes that they *must* attend. I’m really grateful for other people’s flexibility to be able to help so that our lives can continue in a moderately normal way despite being incredibly abnormal for these 10-day intensives.

I had a great report from Picasso’s Sunday school and children’s church teacher on Sunday. He did very well - hopefully we’re through the toughest of the transitions! We’re so proud to hear that he’s doing well, is able to be engaged, is able to use some words, and even that he can cover his ears when the noise gets too loud. That sure beats him hollering or having a meltdown or running away!

Additionally, today we had another first - a fun first; a funny first! Picasso used air quotes correctly. I know - really doesn’t seem newsworthy. However, for a kid who lacks in social awareness, this is a huge step! Might have just been a fluke that he used them correctly today, or it might be the beginning of “all things air quotes” and I may find myself tired of seeing air quotes after awhile. Either way - the only way he could possibly KNOW to use air quotes is by noticing other people. Noticing other people means he’s looking at other people. Looking at other people means he’s aware of the fact that there are other people to notice. To sum up: these air quotes indicate a success in Social Skills Training! Hooray!

His last OT-intensive was in July. Due to this therapy basically overwhelming his central nervous system, we don’t listen to much music on the drive to/from therapy if Picasso isn’t in the mood for it. The other 2 kids are really great at understanding that this is a tough time for him and they’re great to go along with his music selections for these 2 weeks, or without music if that’s what he needs. (And sometimes he’s game to let them choose some music as well.) He sometimes chooses jazz or classical or Sunday school songs or church songs or Christmas music. In July, the overwhelming choice was the Vince Guaraldi Trio - aka, Charlie Brown Christmas music. I like listening to that, and I probably like it more than most people. But…in July? For approximately 2 hours a day? Not so much. So, wish me luck - that the musical genre choices will be a little broader this time!
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Art from Picasso

Our Picasso loves art. He always has - always has enjoyed coloring, drawing, painting, play-doh: anything that allows him to be creating!When we moved into our current home, he was almost 3 years old. It was around that same time that we were seriously wondering if he had something wrong - maybe developmental delays? maybe hearing issues? maybe he was just a “free spirit”? Doctors told us year after year that nothing was wrong, that he’d grow out of it - whatever “it” was.The love of art continued, as did the “issues”. We have a better handle on the issues now, expanding our initial medical team to now include a therapy team who work on the issues that have been found through evaluations. The artwork continues. Friends ask, “Doesn’t it bother you that he draws on the walls?” Yes. Also, no. Yes, in that it bothers the part of me that knows that I will have to do something about the artwork someday. But that’s the key - “someday”. I do not have to do something about it today.However, it also does not bother me, because speech is an issue for our Picasso. There are many times when there is clearly something wrong, but he does not have the ability to verbalize it. It’s at those times when the Wall Art tends to appear. After one particular episode of Wall Art, I asked Picasso about it.

“It was when I was supposed to be resting. I couldn’t wait, I had to do it right then because I wanted you to know.”

How do you not love that? When there are no words to tell me what the problem is, at least there are enough words to say he loves me. When there are no words, there is still love. It takes an unusual form in my house, but I will take Wall Art because it is communication when there is no other communication!
Here are a few more - I know they’re difficult to see, but he usually leaves art in moderately unlit areas, so getting a picture is difficult.
He’s definitely got some creativity and some amazing things going on in his mind!

P.S. His art is not always limited to Wall Art….

In case you wonder, Sharpie comes off of skin in about a week, with regular washing and patience (as in, there’s just not much you can do but wait for it to fade).

We love our Picasso!

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