Archives for November 2017

Overcoming the Uphill Battles in Marriage

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Every marriage faces uphill battles and times of struggle. None of us are immune from those. What happens, though, when those times seem to become the norm rather than the exception? What about when a situation turns ugly and you don’t feel secure telling your girlfriends or small group about things that are going on?

I never expected to find myself in that situation. I had a strong marriage to a man who had been a Christian pretty much from birth, as I had. We had our ups and downs, but I never expected the bottom to nearly fall out in my marriage. The shock and hurt that I felt was overwhelming.

Everything that I knew to be real and true in my marriage was stripped away. All that remained was a bare and broken heart. It wasn’t long before the question became, “Are you going to stay?”

We spent a lot of time in various ministries at the church and our entire support system was there. There was support if I wanted to leave, but there didn’t seem to be much hope if I wanted to stay. I felt utterly confused by the lack of support as we walked this dark road.

I’m honored to be sharing about overcoming the uphill battles in marriage over at Young Wives Club again today.


 

Support for women who are standing for their marriage, trusting God to restore and redeem.

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How to Grow a Healthy Marriage

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My husband and I celebrated our 18th anniversary this summer! We’ve grown so much over the years, experienced typical ups and downs and endured many changes. We’ve come a long way from that couple standing in front of the church saying our vows. There were so many changes that occurred after marriage. Looking back, I see that I was not prepared for all that changed when we got married.

Dating had come easily, conversations flowed freely. Perhaps it was the stress of married life, or maybe the early pregnancy in our marriage, that indicated that things would not be smooth sailing. Although I committed to the marriage for the long haul, I learned a few things in those early years that helped me stay focused on growing in my marriage.

I didn’t just want to grow a marriage, though; I wanted to grow a healthy marriage. There will be growing pains, but we can make sure they provide growth in a positive way!

I’m sharing 3 ways to grow a healthy marriage at Fulfilling Your Vows.

I’d love to hear your tips for how to grow a healthy marriage!


 

Support for women who are standing for their marriage, trusting God to restore and redeem.

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Linking up with Crystal Storms at #HeartEncouragement