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Autumn Inspiration Week

IBN Blog imageAutumn is my favorite season with rich, vibrant colors and the transition to cooler weather after the long, hot days of summer. I like bundling up in sweatshirts and jackets, and going for walks to look at the changing leaves.

Long, frequent walks let me notice the change in some of my favorite trees, sometimes even from day to day. I notice everything around me seeming to begin its long descent into preparation for winter. At the park, that they aren’t mowing as often. More branches are visible on shrubs and bushes, and there is less greenery to be seen. Flowering plants quickly fade away as the days get shorter and the nights get cooler.

That reminds me of the verse in Isaiah 40:8 -

The grass withers and the flowers fall,
but the word of our God endures forever.

This is what happens every autumn - “the grass withers and the flowers fall” - and God already had it ordained. Yes, we certainly know that God has ordained the days, weeks, months, seasons, but how often do we truly consider that?

As I walk through the park, as I see the bright red tree on our drive to therapy, as I note the final time that my husband mows for the season, all of these are parts of what God has ordained for this season, autumn. What joy that brings!

God made the world to go through these changes, to have times of new growth, steady growth, and then a natural time of pruning and washing away of “the old” in preparation for the winter dormancy before new growth is revealed again in the spring.

The grass withers and the flowers fall….

And then there’s the next part of the verse - so rich in truth and promise.

…but the word of our God endures forever.

Oh, friends, in the time of the year when all is changing around us, when everything in nature is preparing for the coming winter, the word of God endures.

autumnDo you know those rich, vibrant colors that we see on trees in autumn? I love to consider those as God’s rich gift to us, reminding us that He is a part of everything around us. He shines through, no matter where we are.

Isn’t that a wonderful blessing? Take time, as you enter this autumn season, to remember that God is at work in all we see - the birds flying south, the trees showing their true beauty, the chilly air announcing the coming frost.

This is such a perfect time to get back on track with God, to spend time in His Word, to renew and restore our relationship with Him, as He is the only One capable of carrying us through the seasons of our lives!

Welcome to autumn; step outside, soak in some of the warmth of the sun in the coolness of the morning. Notice the bright, warm colors as the leaves change colors. And remember that, “The grass withers and the flowers fall, but the word of our God endures forever.” Amen!

I’m joining other wonderful bloggers in Autumn Inspiration Week. I’d encourage you to click the link and head over to read some other wonderful posts!

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Be Still and Know

Let’s just start this get-together by making sure we both have some coffee, or tea, or whatever your warm beverage of choice may be. Life has been a little bumpy here lately, and it’ll be better to sit and chat over our favorite drinks. Here, in this space, there is only grace.

Be still and know that I am God

Life doesn’t always go how we plan, does it? The past few weeks have been nothing short of “spectacular” in the amount of things that have gone a little awry. It’s been a long month of learning patience, because I started praying for that again, rather than pursuing perseverance. There’s something so heart-warming about the verse in Psalm 46:10 -

“Be still and know that I am God….”

Since returning from our vacation in mid-August, I was thrown into 10 meetings the following week. Some of these were orientations for school, but not all. The most amazing part of it all is that I’m not even a paid employee, just a volunteer. I love the school we use, though, and it’s been a perfect fit for our family, so I’m happy to be able to have an opportunity to learn and be able to give back!

Our first week of school was rough - some technology issues, some back-to-school protests (not just by the children…!), and the beginning of attempting to internalize our new schedule.

Be still…

Our second week of school was better, and worse. Better, because we added in all our extras - therapy, piano, some class time with a teacher. Worse, though, because we lost a beloved teacher. Apparently she quit on the first Friday of school, and no further information was given.

On our first day back to therapy, both therapists reported some conversations about God, or about church - makes a mama’s heart proud to know that whatever struggles we’re facing with our son, Jesus is getting through to his heart! We have a long road ahead of us, in terms of things that will happen this year, but I know it will be a great opportunity to gauge how much he’s learning and growing.

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Our daughter had her first sleepover, here at our house, over the weekend. What fun! She’s really needed some good friends, as life with two brothers can get a little messy at times. The giggling and laughter of little girls was so much fun to listen to! I love that she has this friend, and a couple other good friends at our small group!

And here we are, into week 3 of school. We’ve had a Music class for our 9th grader that would not work, no matter what anyone tried. As of this week, it’s officially working! The staff worked together to find what wasn’t working correctly, and worked to get it fixed! And this week, I’m finding that I’m going to have to tweak our schedule a bit, in order to fit in everyone’s piano practice, schoolwork, church activities, and our family times. I’m sure I’ll miss a meeting, or forget to do something on my list.

But do you know what I’ve found, friends? I’ve found grace and peace in learning patience. Before, these issues would have combined to set me into some eye-twitching, panic-mode stress. Now, though, I’m realizing these things are all out of my control, and so there’s no point in spending time, energy and stress on them. Rather, these things are helping me focus on Jesus, on resting in Him.

that I am God….

And do you know? Jesus offers only grace.

If you’re needing grace today, you’re at the right place. There’s nothing here but grace. This side of the computer screen is just as imperfect as your side - but friend, don’t you know? It’s perfectly imperfect! And that’s what you’ll find here - not perfection, but rather a whole heap of genuine!

Going ahead, I’m hoping for smoother days, but I’m also grateful that God is in control; we have only to be still!

From Perseverance To Patience

I’m sure you’ve heard what “they” say about patience - something along the lines of, “Don’t pray for patience, because you will get plenty of opportunities to work on your patience.” Well, I listened to “them” and stopped praying for patience for a while. After all, I had a lot going on; the last thing I really needed was another opportunity to practice patience. I decided to pray for perseverance instead - the ability to keep on going.

I think my change in perspective, from praying for patience to praying for perseverance, originally came a few years ago. Many days (and nights) we were up to our eyeballs in dealing with our son and his special needs, and trying to keep life as close to normal as we possibly could for our other two kids. I was tired of being patient with him, but I knew that I had to keep going, so I transitioned to praying for perseverance to get through some of the tougher days.

Praying for perseverance brought me many opportunities to keep going; it afforded me many chances to try, and try again. Things certainly weren’t smooth sailing for me, but it didn’t frustrate me, either, like praying for patience did. I was persevering. I was able to keep going.

Recently, I was doing a book study with some friends and we were talking about patience. I was sharing my aversion to praying for patience. As I shared, a thought occurred to me - one I don’t think I’ve considered before.

I think I was praying for perseverance because that was something I could control. I could determine to what extent I persevered, how hard I worked in any given situation, how much time and effort I continued to put forth.

Praying for patience, though, meant that I was relinquishing control and waiting on someone else. Maybe it was God, maybe it was someone from the school, maybe it was a child. I could not persevere and push through; I had to choose to stop and wait.

Want to know a secret? {I don’t like to wait.}
(Insert a collective, “Oh, REALLY?!” from everyone who knows me, right here…
go ahead, I know, and you’re right to respond that way.)

I don’t like to wait. I don’t like to not be the one in control. I like gauging my day by my effort, by giving my best, by living up to the standard I know I can attain on any given day.

But, that’s not what God is wanting me to learn - at least, not right now.

Right now, He is showing me how He is faithful to work everything out. How do I know? I used to work so hard to schedule everything exactly right. When I gave up persisting and starting being patient, I saw God work things out in amazing ways to make sure that everything fits beautifully into our week. And the way our schedule works out this year, we’re ending up with at least two full days at home each week! Our busiest days are in the middle of the week, and they will definitely be full, but that ensures that we’ll have good chunks of time at home, able to catch up on work, get some rest and not have to run in another direction. When I was patient, rather than persistent, God worked that out for us!

There’s also a certain freedom in stopping the hard work of perseverance, and beginning the waiting that comes with being patient. Sure, you can wait impatiently, but that kind of defeats the purpose, so I’m trying to wait patiently.

How am I doing that?
PAUSE - I’m intentionally choosing to stop and to remember that I’m working on being patient, rather than pushing through to make my own solution.
PRAY - I take time to pray, remembering that God is eager to hear from me, and asking for His help as I try to be patient in my waiting.
PAY attention - I turn my focus to other things - laundry, dishes, reading with my kids, talking to my husband, encouraging someone else. I actively try to get whatever I’m waiting for out of my mind, unless I’m praying about it.

Do you notice that they’re all things that require an action or intentional choice on my part? It’s not just that I decide, “Oh, I won’t persist; I’ll be patient.” No, for me, I have to intentionally (each time) work at making the choice to be patient.

Have you given up on praying for patience? Can I encourage you to try again? Be intentional in your efforts. Slow down in your persistence so that you can let God help you increase your patience! After all, you know what “they” say - “Good things come to those who wait!”

 

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Dear Weary Mom {Stop Comparing}

Dear Weary Mom,

As moms, don’t you find that we’re always comparing our kids and ourselves to other families? It’s so unfair, and can be so painful at times, yet we keep doing it. We believe that God created our children as He did, for a reason. And we might even believe that He created us the way He did, for a reason.

Dear Weary Mom {Stop Comparing}

But along with that, God already knew what kind of mother we would be, and gave us many of our strengths and traits to be used as mothers. What if we believe that He created us to be the mothers that we are, for a reason? Yes, we should all be learning and growing as mothers, but what if we believe that our mothering gifts and abilities come from God?

Wouldn’t that be freeing, in a sense? You and I could be free from the comparison to other moms, and to other families, which ultimately leads to physical and mental (and sometimes even spiritual) exhaustion.

Our greatest comparison would only be to see if we are matching up to what God has called us to be.

And sisters, becoming who God has created us to be
is a life-long adventure!

Let’s focus on our motherhood. Let’s find some quiet time, and ask God how we are measuring up to what He wants us to be, as mothers. Ask Him to mold you into the mother He wants you to be.

God promises that we will receive, we only need to ask.

Ask and it will be given to you; seek and you will find;
knock and the door will be opened to you.
-Matthew 7:7

I’d encourage us (yes, me too) to write down any words, phrases or thoughts that God gives you as you pray about your mothering. Put them around your house as a reminder of your time with God. Pray over those words. Ask God to show you more of what He has planned with those words. Ask for growth in those areas.

dearwearymom_button_whiteMoms, take your eyes off of others, and fix them only on God. Stop comparing your family to anyone else’s family; God is calling us all to different things, so it does not make sense to compare. Only measure your family against what God is calling you to, and ask God for more of Himself in your family, and in your mothering.

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God’s Big Dreams {For Your Life}

This week we’ve talked about dreaming big dreams. I’ve shared some of my personal big dreams, and some of the big dreams we’re dreaming with and for our children. Just as we have dreams for our children, our parents have dreams for us. But I wonder - do you know that God, your heavenly Father, has big dreams for your life?

God's BIG Dreams {For Your Life}

The very familiar passage when talking about God’s plans for our lives is Jeremiah 29:11 - “For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the Lord, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.” But the verses surrounding that particular verse hold some great truths in knowing that God already has plans for our lives. Jeremiah 29:10-15

10 This is what the Lord says: “When seventy years are completed for Babylon, I will come to you and fulfill my good promise to bring you back to this place. 11 For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the Lord, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future. 12 Then you will call on me and come and pray to me, and I will listen to you. 13 You will seek me and find me when you seek me with all your heart. 14 I will be found by you,” declares the Lord, “and will bring you back from captivity. I will gather you from all the nations and places where I have banished you,” declares the Lord, “and will bring you back to the place from which I carried you into exile.”

God had a plan for those who were in exile. The verbs used even indicate that these are future plans - the verse say, “I will come to you,” and, “I will be found by you,” and those are promises for the future.

In order to have promises for the future, one has to have already considered the situation. You can’t have specific future plans unless you’ve done some specific future thinking.

In Ephesians 1:4, we find that we were chosen, even before the beginning of the world: “For he chose us in him before the creation of the world to be holy and blameless in his sight.”

I won’t even touch the whole predestination discussion that usually occurs around that passage. But if we believe that the Bible is God’s Word to us, then no matter which side of predestination you come down on, the truth still remains: God chose us. And if He chose us (wanted us - wants us), then He must have a plan for us!

Psalm 139:13-18 gives us such a beautiful look at God creating us, and wanting us from the beginning:

13 For you created my inmost being;
you knit me together in my mother’s womb.
14 I praise you because I am fearfully and wonderfully made;
your works are wonderful,
I know that full well.
15 My frame was not hidden from you
when I was made in the secret place,
when I was woven together in the depths of the earth.
16 Your eyes saw my unformed body;
all the days ordained for me were written in your book
before one of them came to be.

How beautiful - He spent so much time and care in creating us to be just who we are. We weren’t made to act like, look like, or be anyone else. Even identical twins can be used by God in vastly different ways, as God works in their lives.

See that truth in verse 16? “All the days ordained for me were written in your book before one of them came to be.” Before we drew our first breath, God already knew us, knew what He had ordained (planned, decreed) for us.

As you consider your life, and the lives of your family members, remember to dream big dreams. The God who created you and me is the same God who parted the Red Sea, raised the dead, and worked to perform numerous miracles that are recorded for us in Scripture. And He has a great big plan for your life! Don’t sell Him short; don’t put God in a box or shrink Him to human-sized. Ask God to fill your heart with HIS God-sized dream for your life!

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As we close out this series on dreaming big dreams, I want to leave you with this from Ephesians 3:20,21 as a prayer for us as we live our lives in the God-sized plans that He has for us!

20 Now to him who is able to do immeasurably more than all we ask or imagine, according to his power that is at work within us, 21 to him be glory in the church and in Christ Jesus throughout all generations, for ever and ever! Amen.

For the rest of this series:
1. Dream Big Dreams
2. Dream Big Dreams {For Our Children}
3. God’s Big Dreams {For Your Life}

Dream Big Dreams {For Our Children}

Being married to a man who is a dreamer and visionary, we talk about big dreams a lot. As we’ve had children, we’ve talked about dreaming big dreams for our children. A sense of fear seems to pervade my attempts to dream big, even for our children. It’s not a fear of my own lack of success, but a fear that we might set them up to possibly fail. Not intentionally, of course, but along with my own fear of failure, I think I project that onto my dreaming for them.

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Dreaming Big Dreams

Yesterday I shared about dreaming big dreams and a few requests that I made of God at the beginning of my blogging journey. Were my dreams big enough? It seems that I dream with some fear attached to it - a fear of failure. It’s completely self-inflicted because my parents were wonderful at encouraging my pursuits. I think the fear came with my own notion that “perfection” is the goal. How wrong that was! I think I’m so goal-oriented that ”dream” and ”goal” have been interchangeable in my own mind, and I realize they should not always be used in the same manner. I’m working to change that.

Dreaming Big Dreams {For Our Children}

I’ve watched as my husband has spent time with our children, sharing some of his dreams for them. His way of thinking is so opposite of mine sometimes (ok, maybe a lot of the time!), but he conveys his dreams for them with no fear attached. He has a way of making dreams, goals, and achievement seem exciting! He also has a wonderful ability to convey how to achieve those dreams. But, he doesn’t consider failure attached to a dream - he just sees the dream as an ultimate possibility.

My own recovering-perfectionist spirit used to try to remind him that he may be setting them up for failure by sharing some of his big dreams for them.

He has never accepted the idea that he may be setting them up for failure. (Wise man!)

He has reminded me that if we don’t teach our children to dream, we are, in essence, telling them that mediocrity is okay.

What a great lesson for him to remind me of - mediocrity is not the goal. And just as we sat with them through attempts at talking, walking, bike-riding, schooling, we need to sit with them at their attempts to learn to do their best. And even in their attempts to learn to dream big dreams.

We’re learning - and some of you seasoned parents already know this - that we have to open our children’s eyes to possibilities for what they can do in life. As they grow into their gifts and talents, then their likes and dislikes, and strengths and weaknesses, will begin to shine through, and we’ll be better-equipped to know what direction to guide them. We also have to continue to remind them to be following what they feel God has for them. Making life-choices should always start and end with prayer.

My husband has been providing a good example of what I mean by opening our children’s eyes to the possibilities of what they can do. Our kids are all musically inclined. Our oldest, nicknamed Mozart because, well, it fits, has been taking piano lessons for over 5 years now. And he’s good. (Must brag a little!)

When he was younger, there was a little discussion of continuing to take lessons, and maybe working toward music as a big part of his life. As he has gotten older, their discussion has become more fine-tuned to various things he can do with his gift and talent if he continues to pursue it - composing, teaching, musical groups, things like that. We’ve also shared more piano music with him, so that he can hear some of the best pianists at work!

Dreaming His Own Dream

The result has been that we now have a teenager who has a better grasp on what he wants to do with his life.

His intent is to pursue music through high school and college. I love that!

Dream Big Dreams {For Our Children}

But do you know what I love even more? He knows what he needs to do to reach that goal.

And that’s what I love most: He’s doing what he needs to do to take steps toward achieving his goal! His practice time has increased substantially. His effort is matching his practice time - he is working hard!

Big Dreams and Big Prayer

As Tim and I dream big dreams for our children, we’re able to share those with them and teach them the steps to take in dreaming their own big dreams. Our prayers for them take on new depth as we pray for them to always hear God louder than anything else (even us!), and that they would stay close to Jesus and share His love with those along their path.

And if I’m being bold, then I’ll let you in on a bit of our dream and say this:
We hope to see you at a concert hall someday
where our Mozart will play from the music of the Mozart, to many eager hearts!

 

In case you missed the previous post:
Part 1: Dream Big Dreams
and you can also find
Part 3: God’s Big Dreams {For Your Life}

Dream Big Dreams

dream big dreamsDo you dream big dreams? Do you have some big goals in life? Do you find it easy to dream your dreams? Do you dream big dreams for your family, your children, your friends, your church? When do you dream your dreams - in good times or bad? Why do you dream your dreams - because you’re hoping for more, or because you’re shooting for the stars?

My husband is a dreamer, no doubt about it. I love that he enjoys shooting for the stars! I feel very much like a realist when I compare his dreaming ability to my own. And as I’ve been thinking about this lately, I think that for me, there’s almost a fear of failure tied to dreaming big dreams. If I dream, try, and fail, then the perfectionist in me is extremely frustrated. But if I just keep going along in life, and meeting goals, then I feel very successful. But am I missing out on dreaming big dreams? (Yes, I think so!) This is the first of several posts that will focus on dreaming big dreams!

This blog was a big dream. As I started it, I asked God for His words to fill these “pages” (this was my first request). I also asked God for a few other things - the option of writing for one or two other sites (my second request), and the ability to contribute to an e-book before working on what may someday be my own book (my third request). I started this blog in March, and made these 3 requests of God around the same time. This blog has been “live” for just over 4 months, and those requests were my big dreams.

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Guess what? They’ve ALL been answered. Request one - God continues to fill these pages. I often sit down with a particular idea in mind, and God changes it to something slightly different, to bless me, or a reader. Request 2 - I write at several other websites. You can find them by Writing Contributions tab at the top of this page. Request 3 - I am contributing a chapter to a book. More information to come on that. I’m thrilled that God has answered all of these - THRILLED!

But really, the next question is, now what? My dreams - the dreams that I thought were big dreams - are all answered. As a friend said, “You’re going to have to dream bigger dreams!”

I think I’m still really learning how to dream big dreams, and push my fear of failure to the side. I have a lot more to say about this, so I think I’m going to make it a separate post. I’m still praying over my own big dreams, and our big dreams as a couple and as a family. We’ll talk more about that in the next post. In the meantime, you can join us on Facebook for more discussion about dreaming big dreams.

 

UPDATE:
You can read part 2 here: Dream Big Dreams {For Our Children}
and part 3 here: God’s Big Dreams {For Your Life}

Coffee and Superheroes

This morning, while sipping my coffee and enjoying a slow start to the day, I was only sort of paying attention to the cartoon my kids had on. The shows they watch in the morning are parent-approved and basically pretty good. They usually choose the superhero shows and watch the battle between good and evil. Today, I was struck with how they showed the superhero combating the evil ways of the villain.

The villain in the show had apparently been good “in another world”. Everyone seemed to remember that except for the villain. As the battle waged between the villain and the superhero, the hero began to talk down the villain, saying things like, “I know you were good once. I believe in you. I know you will not harm me.” He was talking down his opposition. And ultimately, he won because the villain listened just long enough to realize the superhero truly believed that his words had power behind them - power to turn a bad situation around, and to see the good that could come out of it.

The tactics that the superhero used, speaking truth into the situation with the villain,
hold true for us, too, as Christians.

In II Corinthians 10:3-5, Paul says -

For though we live in the world, we do not wage war as the world does. The weapons we fight with are not the weapons of the world. On the contrary, they have divine power to demolish strongholds. We demolish arguments and every pretension that sets itself up against the knowledge of God, and we take captive every thought to make it obedient to Christ.

When we battle tough situations, or attacks of the Enemy, our combat is not supposed to look the same as those who do not know Jesus. That means when we face situations where the Enemy is trying to destroy us, we need to respond differently. Maybe we need to step out in faith, or at least not cower in fear. Maybe we need to speak truth into the situations where we are struggling - God’s Truth.

We need to realize that as a follower of Christ, we are now a target for attacks by the Enemy. Satan does not want to see us on God’s side. He does not want our lives filled with the power of the Holy Spirit. He does not want our hearts and minds transformed by God’s Word. And so He is coming for us - He is out to attack us where he can.

How do you combat the attacks? The Bible gives us a very clear plan of how to stand against the devil.

Ephesians 6:10-17, again, from Paul -

Finally, be strong in the Lord and in his mighty power. Put on the full armor of God, so that you can take your stand against the devil’s schemes. For our struggle is not against flesh and blood, but against the rulers, against the authorities, against the powers of this dark world and against the spiritual forces of evil in the heavenly realms. Therefore put on the full armor of God, so that when the day of evil comes, you may be able to stand your ground, and after you have done everything, to stand. Stand firm then, with the belt of truth buckled around your waist, with the breastplate of righteousness in place, and with your feet fitted with the readiness that comes from the gospel of peace. In addition to all this, take up the shield of faith, with which you can extinguish all the flaming arrows of the evil one. Take the helmet of salvation and the sword of the Spirit, which is the word of God.

I like how this passage says, “so that when the day of evil comes, you may be able to stand your ground….” To me, (and this is just my opinion) this indicates that we won’t get attacked immediately, or constantly. We may not be in a battle right now, but…it’s coming. That’s what I take out of that particular section.

BUT - our armor needs to be on already. Do you see that? ”Put on the full armor of God, so that when the day of evil comes….” We aren’t supposed to wait for battle and then get ready; we’re supposed to be prepared in advance.

The passage goes on to describe the armor in detail, giving us an understanding of why each piece is important. I’ve heard many different pastors and speakers point out that the only part of this weapon that is for going on the offensive is the sword of the Spirit - the word of God - the Bible. We are to be prepared and covered in the full armor of God, but apparently we are not just supposed to stand there and take the attacks. We have the word of God to speak truth into the situation, to wage war with the enemy.

To wage war, you have to know your weapon, inside and out. Consider a soldier who uses a gun in battle - that soldier knows how to dismantle the weapon, how to clean it, what type of bullets it uses - he knows everything about his weapon. Why? Because he has spent time with it. He has had it in pieces, and then put it together as a whole. He has inspected every available spot to make sure nothing will hinder his use of the weapon. He has trained with it, specifically for combat situations so that he knows exactly what will happen and does not need to have a fear of using his weapon in the midst of battle. He is prepared. He knows his weapon as though it were an extension of his person.

So, here’s the important question: Are you ready? Are you ready for when the attack comes? Have you put on the full armor of God? Have you prepared with your weapon as the soldier has? Paul is very clear - our struggle is not against flesh and blood - it is not of this world. It is a spiritual struggle and we have all of the protection that we need, along with the only weapon we need.

Dear friend, are you ready? Maybe you need to step back and re-evaluate your battles, knowing that while they seem bound in things of earth, they are really a spiritual fight for your soul. Maybe you need to prepare in advance and choose today to clothe yourself with the armor of God so that when your battle comes, you are prepared. And maybe you need to check your weapon. Clean it off, open it up, learn what’s inside of it, so that when the attack comes against you, you are already prepared.

Just like the superhero in the cartoon my kids watched,
let’s be prepared to speak truth into our battles -
God’s Truth!

New York City

My husband and I have been married for 14 years now - hooray! This year we decided to take a day to go to New York City and see some of the sites. We did a little homework and made a list of a few things we wanted to see, some we hoped to see, and we happened by a few more while we were up there. My only problem? How to fit 176 pictures into 1 blog post. ;-) Don’t worry; I’ve chosen out a select few.

We did our homework and found that parking in NYC was actually cheaper than many places near us in Philadelphia. That was a big surprise! I think it was because it was a Saturday rather than a weekday. Even still, “cheap parking” is not usually something one associates with New York City.

Our first stop was The Top of the Rock - Rockefeller Center. This view of the city was gorgeous! The Top of the Rock is so much cheaper than touring the Empire State Building, although the Empire State Building still remains a must-see as it is an iconic part of the city landscape. The elevator had a brief history of Rockefeller Center played on the ceiling as you went up to the 67th floor, and then another video clip that they play on the way down. It helps to make the ride a lot more interesting! You take the elevator to the 67th floor, and from there you can take an escalator to the 69th floor, and then a short flight of stairs up to the 70th floor.

This is the view from the 69th floor, facing the north end of Manhattan. The view of Central Park was beautiful - such a vast area of peace and tranquility in the heart of the city that never sleeps.

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Looking toward the southern end of the island, you can see the Empire State Building, standing tall above most other buildings nearby. Just to the right of it, and in the background is the new Freedom Tower, which will be featured in another picture. On the river, past the Freedom Tower are 3 small islands, one of them being home to the Statue of Liberty. On a more clear day, I’m told you can see her as a welcoming point, even from this distance.

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When we went back down to the main level, it was difficult to find a spot to take a picture of all of Rockefeller Plaza in its full summer beauty. One thing that my husband and I did not know, or realize, is that the skating rink that we so often see in winter, becomes a restaurant in summer. Since it was difficult to find a good vantage point for a picture, I decided to share this amazing capture of the plaza by the experts at the Lego store, which occupies a building right on the plaza. And yes, it’s ALL made out of Lego.

rockefeller center 2

From Rockefeller Plaza we wandered through a street fair and had some delicious wraps for lunch. We enjoyed the people-watching and marveled at what the city must be like at rush hour on any given work day.

We ventured into Central Park. There seemed to be a good mix of native New Yorkers and tourists, and all were enjoying the peace that came from this hideaway in the heart of the city. We happened onto a concert of classical music, by an orchestra that gives free summertime concerts. We saw a few street shows and were entertained by their antics. We enjoyed the real life scenes from some of our family’s favorite movies and decided that if nothing else, it would be fun to bring the kids with us next time, to enjoy a day in the park.

orchestra concert

central park 4

buildings 3

bridge and profile 2

 

roosevelt island light 2After spending time in Central Park, we got in the van and drove the whole perimeter of the park, before heading across the Queensboro Bridge, and eventually onto Roosevelt Island. There is a small park at the northern end of the (very small) island, and in that small park there is a small lighthouse. Since my husband loves lighthouses, we spent time trying to figure out where we could (legally!) park on the island, and then we walked up to the park to take a few pictures. Considering that the doorway is standard doorway height (whatever that is, a little over 6 feet, maybe?) you can tell that the lighthouse is not very tall. And it was closed off so we were not able to get much closer, but we were still glad for the walk and the gorgeous view from the island back into Manhattan.

We decided that our last stop would be Liberty State Park, to look back at the southern end of Manhattan and to see the Statue of Liberty, closer than we’d ever been before. Someday we’ll take a trip out to the island, but it will be when we have the kids with us. We arrived shortly before sunset and it almost seemed chilly as the cool breeze came off the river. This is a gorgeous park, full of history and reverence, as you can imagine that some of the first immigrants probably had their first steps on America’s mainland right there at the park.

statue of Liberty 2

Please excuse the poorer quality of this next picture - the wind had picked up and it’s a long distance shot. For ease of travel, I had only taken my phone for picture-taking. The picture is looking back into Manhattan. The prominent building in the right-hand side of the picture is the new Freedom Tower, complete with the spire. The tall building in the left-hand side of the picture is the Empire State Building, and just to the right of that, also with a more pointed roof, is the Chrysler Building.

Manhattan and Midtown 2

It was a beautiful day in every sense. These pictures are only a small part of our day, believe it or not! A few other highlights - we parked right by Carnegie Hall, we traversed the Brooklyn Bridge, we spotted Radio City Music Hall on our way to Rockefeller Plaza, we drove by Trump Tower near Central Park - just a wonderful day! The weather was warm but not too hot, the company was the best, the views were spectacular, and the celebration of our anniversary was wonderful! We’re looking forward to taking another trip back up to New York City with the kids. A special thanks to my parents for keeping the kids to help make this celebration possible!

 

Our Stories Are Not Just For Us

our stories are not just for usLife stories - we all have a variety of them. Some are good, and we love to share those stories. There are other stories, though, that we probably wish we never had to contend with. I think that maybe we forget that our stories are not just for us, they are not solely ours. We are not the author of our stories, of our lives.

If God created us, each of us, for this particular time in history, then I believe there is a reason why we, you and I, are here on Earth together. I believe our stories can impact each other’s lives in ways we could not imagine. Have you ever sat through a meeting or a sermon and wondered, “How does that person know exactly what I needed to hear?” And that is exactly where God is allowing someone else’s story or testimony to intersect with ours. That is the point where God is using someone else to meet us right where we are.

We’re happy to share our good stories - the ones that bring us joy or contentment. We’re happy to share how God is providing and all He is doing in our lives.

But what about the tough stuff? What about some of those gut-wrenching experiences in life? Why does God allow those, and why, WHY, would we ever share those? They are steeped in sorrow, darkness and discontent. Who wants to hear about that? Who wants to know the tough stuff?

I have had these exact conversations with various friends over the past few months. The past 12 months have been full of ups and downs for our family. Times have been ugly when I would have preferred beautiful, rainy when I wanted sunshine. I shared about many of our biggest struggles here. They are full of ugly memories, frustration, and wondering where God was.

We shared that story, though, and we watched as God provided - in ways we never imagined, to provide for our needs. Sometimes it was through people, other times it was through some strange situations, like a car accident, which ended up providing for us financially. It really doesn’t make much sense, outside of trusting God.

I’ve also shared about our experience with miscarriage, and how God redeemed that experience, for me. I’ll tell you, that was one experience that I would never have wanted to have. I wonder what was so wrong that God wouldn’t save that baby’s life. Sharing that story, though, has given me opportunity to stand with others when they face similar circumstances. Because I have that story, I’m able to identify with families who are hurting. I have been able to send my experience to several moms who have asked, out loud, “Has anyone else experienced this?”

If we can trust that God is the author of the particular stories we have in life, it can make us a little more brave in quietly whispering, “I am hurting,” or, “My life is a mess right now,” or, “I don’t know why God has this as a part of my story.”

But that, right there - did you see that? THAT is the truth, the part to cling to:

God has this as a part of my story.

When we can trust God for our story, we can trust that God will use our story. We don’t know how He will use it, and we don’t know for whom He may use it. But that isn’t for us to know - that is for God, who has put us here right now, to know and to decide.

We can try and manage our own stories, and our own lives, or we can trust God to do that. And if we believe that God created us, the world around us, and chose to put us here now, can’t we trust that He has a plan for all that we encounter?

Let’s be real for a minute - we can’t always trust. It’s hard to trust. I know that. Believe me, I know.

Can I offer you the same hope that saw us through some of these toughest struggles? It’s powerful - it’s the name of Jesus. When life is hard, or even overwhelming, try saying the name of Jesus, even out loud, and see if your heart isn’t filled with peace! Say it over and over, until your heart is listening and believing that His name can calm your storm.

Never will I leave you; never will I forsake you.”
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Hebrews 13:5

Because His name can calm your storm, can you also trust that His name will author your story with great care? Remember, He will be with you, every step of the way. He is writing our stories with purpose, and on purpose, to use us to minister to others. It’s no accident what you go through, but you don’t go alone.

Our stories are not just for us. God wants to use them in a mighty way. Be encouraged - and remember the overwhelming peace that comes with the name of Jesus!

For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the Lord,
“plans to prosper you and not to harm you,
plans to give you hope and a future.

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Jeremiah 29:11

 

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