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What inspires you? When you’re looking for inspiration for your craft, where do you turn? I often try to make sure that things are quiet and peaceful as that helps my mind focus. What do you do, though, when inspiration strikes at unusual times - when you can’t just pull out your laptop and start writing? This was how my inspiration struck the other evening and it was such a special time for me.

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Thursday evening was our small group. I had been out all day and was fighting a migraine, so I wasn’t really on top of my game. Honestly, it was all I could do to just keep up with the conversation.

The evening was going well - good food, great fellowship, and a wonderful word study on the Holy Spirit.

Suddenly, someone said the words.

Honestly, I don’t even remember which words sparked it for me, but the thoughts were all there, in a row.

But, no laptop, and the thoughts were coming too quickly to try and hammer it out on my phone.

Thankfully there were half sheets of paper on the table for an activity that we were doing. I grabbed a couple of unused ones and out came the outline of what will be a future post.

The inspiration, though, didn’t just come from the words that were spoken, but rather the faces around the table. Honestly, it wasn’t even those particular faces, though I love them dearly, but more the fact that there were even friends who could gather at the table. (More on that another time.)

As I wrote, the joy welled up in my heart. As the words came, I glanced at each face, considering the parts of their story that I knew, wondering about unknown parts, hoping that maybe - just maybe - I might someday share their stories.

I’ve never looked at others this way, soaking up inspiration from old friends and new ones. I’ve never relished the smile, enjoyed the inquisitive glance, pondered the lingering gaze at God’s Word, as I did that evening.

I watched people be friends. I watched a smile passed from one side of the table across to the other. I saw people listening intently, interested to hear what others would say.

Listening. I watched people listening to one another.

Have you ever watched someone listen - like, really watched them? The way their head tilts, the way their eyes glisten when they find something humorous, the way their mouth forms a frown in frustration, the way the smiles light up the face…utterly fascinating! And all a part of who God created them to be.

A dozen people - and no two of them listen in the exact same way. Yet they all hear, they all understand, and they all take in the words with love.

I listened as words were spoken - words to encourage, uplift, and edify. I watched the way the lips turned, the movement of their hands, the passion in their eyes as they shared encouragement, care and empathy one with another.

As I watched them all - my Thursday family, my church family - the words kept coming. The outline, the notes, the feelings, the words and phrases for a post that is yet to come. Pages were handed to me, conversations continued around me, smiles continued being exchanged while Jesus continued to be exalted.

And there was no question -
as quickly as the words came, they were finished.

There was no more to add, and not any to take away. Just like that, just a few minutes, was all I needed for my inspiration.

Pay attention - take notice of those around you. Watch as they listen, listen while they share, see the beautiful person that they are, and then thank God for the inspiration that He provides even around the table.

 

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Back to the Basics

Each morning I wake up a little earlier than I need to, because I like to ease into the day. I don’t like being rushed and I don’t like just jumping into a day. I can’t stand the snooze button on the alarm clock because I lose valuable time to just be. Truth be told, I rarely use an alarm clock anymore. I plan to do something valuable with each day - whether it’s to catch up on the laundry, bake some homemade goodies, go a little above and beyond in the cleaning, or write something that you will hopefully bless someone.

The fact of the matter is, though, that those things don’t often get done. I get sidetracked by an email from school or a call that must be made, I forget to eat breakfast and so I have to stop and get back into the routine. If you’re anything like me, you probably find yourself in the same kind of situation - juggling schedules, longing for routine, forgetting a meal, trying to do all the good things. So today, let’s step way back - back to the basics.

Back to the Basics - 3 quick steps to make sure your heart's foundation is solid || rebekahmhallberg.com

Dear friend, in all our schedule-shuffling, meal-making, and life-living, we need to check and make sure our foundation is solid. Today’s that day. If we do nothing else today, we will check for a solid foundation, and that will be enough! It won’t take long, but it will be so valuable for today, tomorrow, and the next day, and the day after that.

First, whose day is this?

This is the day the Lord has made; We will rejoice and be glad in it.
-Psalm 118:24

When we pause and remember that this is God’s day, that He has created it for us, we can find a renewed sense of purpose and direction. As God what His plan is for you in this particular day.

Second, who loves you?

I have loved you with an everlasting love; I have drawn you with unfailing kindness.
-Jeremiah 31:3

Do you understand that? God, the Father, the Creator. He loves us. HE loves us. He LOVES us. He loves US. No matter what we’re waking up to face on any given day, we have God’s love to strengthen us. God woke us up today for a reason, and whatever that is, His love will carry us through His plans for us today.

Third, who do you love?

Jesus replied: “‘Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind.’ This is the first and greatest commandment. And the second is like it: ‘Love your neighbor as yourself.’”
-Matthew 22:37-39

There’s a beautiful acronym for the order in which we ought to love. When you follow this simple acronym, you get JOY.

J - Jesus first
O - Others next
Y - Yourself last

Do you have JOY? If not, check whether you are loving in the correct order.

For today, just back to the basics, because sometimes we all need that reminder to check that our foundation is solid.

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Beauty in Brokenness

In the warm, autumn sun, the farm is alive with life! The dew glistens on the flowers and the pumpkins, inviting your eye to see the perfection of each creation. Displays are arranged to feature the best of each type of plant, to showcase the cream of the crop. The hustle and bustle of excited children, searching for the perfect carving pumpkin, tugs at your heart and you can’t help but to smile!

In the corner, though, at the edge of the farm, out of direct sunlight, and just about as hidden as they can be, there are pots of chrysanthemums, seeming out of place. Are they extras? Are they pre-purchased? Why not display them with the others? The question is asked, and the answer seems surprising: “They are broken.” To most, these are undesirable, imperfect, not suitable. But every now and again, I think we need to look beyond the exterior perfection, to find the beauty in brokenness.

beauty in brokenness

Broken - not “impossible to sell”, just “damaged, imperfect” and so the farmer was willing to take less money. But, isn’t that the chance you take with a plant? That it may die, or that it may break? Or that the frost will claim it a little too early? Three broken mums were less than the price of one small, perfect mum, and so we chose the three we wanted.

Broken. Wanted. Imperfect. Chosen.
Claimed. Tended. Flourishing.

Isn’t that how it is when Jesus looks at us? In our own strength, we are broken, imperfect, deeply flawed. Yet when God sent Jesus to earth, He wasn’t sending Him to look for the perfect. He was sent for the needy, the hurting, those with a heart to hear His words, the imperfect.

And if we’re honest, that’s all of us - we are all imperfect, needing Jesus. Some of us may stand off to the side, others may be tucked away behind the fence, or hidden in the shadows.

Those mums that were featured, though, put out as the best and the brightest? They have just as much of a chance of being broken, damaged, or deeply flawed if not properly cared for. There’s no guarantee that they will flourish - not without proper care.

And Jesus comes along, and He looks at us. He sees our imperfections, He finds us out of the way. He seeks us, broken and damaged as we may be, hiding because we don’t measure up, and He claims us.

Claimed by Jesus.
Bought with a price.

Our salvation cost His life. He saw such value in us - whether we were the featured, lovely-looking life, or the hidden, damaged life - that He paid the price for us.

And He takes us, tends our wounds, our battle-weary hearts, places His perfect protection on us, and we are His.

We are claimed by the only One able to mend our mess. We are tended by the only One able to make us into what we ought to be, and we flourish because we are loved by the One who can find beauty in our brokenness.

 

 

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Now to the King Eternal

Today is the final post in my Autumn Inspiration Week series. This may be my favorite verse of the 6 we’ve looked at this week:

N: Now to the King eternal, immortal, invisible, the only God,
be honor and glory for ever and ever. Amen. -I Timothy 1:17

Now to the King eternal

This verse always reminds me of the majesty of God. Eternal. Immortal. Invisible. The only God. No one else can be described this way - not since the beginning of time, and not even at the end of time. Only God.

Only God!

Isn’t that reassuring? If things are not going well, we can remember that our battle is not against flesh and blood (Ephesians 6:12), and that we can’t see the battle in the spiritual realm, but we know that God - eternal, immortal, invisible - is fighting for us! When the enemy is attacking, the best way to ward him off is with praise, and a great way to do that is to focus on these aspects of Who God is!

And when things are going well, are we remembering to thank God for all He does for us? In our own power, we’re unable to accomplish many of the things we do in life. Often, it’s only because of God’s help that we’re able to accomplish what we do. Are we remembering to acknowledge Him and thank Him for that? All honor and glory are His!

I hope you’ve enjoyed the posts this week. Honestly, it’s stretched me a little to write every day, but I’ve enjoyed focusing specifically on Scripture this week! If you need to catch up on the older posts, you can find them here:
A: Ask, Seek, Knock
U: Unless the Lord Builds the House
T: This is the confidence
U: Until I Come, Devote Yourself
M: My Flesh and My Heart May Fail
N: Now to the King Eternal

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My Flesh and My Heart May Fail

This week we’ve been looking at Bible verses that begin with the letters in the word ‘autumn’. The verse God laid on my heart today seems so appropriate for this time of year, as many are overwhelmed by back-to-school activities, or adjusting to new schedules, or dealing with a life that’s a little different from what they might have hoped for or expected. Today’s verse if Psalm 73:26 -

M: My flesh and my heart may fail, but God is the strength of my heart and my portion forever. Psalm 73:26

God is the strength of my heart

Sometimes as we travel through our days and weeks, we work on getting things done - doing the things we know we need to do. We get caught up, or at least I know I do, in a cycle of self-reliance. For example, I don’t give a lot of thought to including God in the somewhat smaller areas of my life, like the laundry or the meal-making. Not that I’m trying to exclude Him, but I’m not actively including Him. I don’t think this is necessarily a bad thing.

However, when that lack of focus on God, and lack of reliance on God, seep into other areas, and I find myself trying to take on things in my own strength, then that becomes a problem. I get worn down, I get sidetracked, I lose my focus. I grow weary so easily, even in doing all the good things.

I may become frustrated with the kids because they are all battling for my attention, rather than making time to spend with each of them. I may get discouraged in attempting to keep up with the cooking and cleaning because I’m feeling so overwhelmed in other areas that I’m trying to manage in my own strength.

That’s where a choice to continually focus on God helps me to guard my heart. When I actively carry God with me through each day, even through the mundane aspects that I physically can do on my own, I find that He fills my heart.

When my heart is full with God, all of the other things fall into place.

Like the psalm-writer, I can say that God is the strength of my heart. It’s only through His filling of my heart that I’m able to keep my attitude and actions on track, focused on God.

If you’re looking for the previous posts in this series, they are listed below:
A: Ask, Seek, Knock
U: Unless the Lord Builds the House
T: This is the Confidence
U: Until I Come, Devote Yourself

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Until I Come, Devote Yourself

This week, I’m sharing 6 short meditations for Autumn Inspiration Week, each verse beginning with the letters in the word autumn. Here’s what I’ve shared so far:

A: Ask, Seek, Knock
U: Unless the Lord Builds the House
T: This is the Confidence we Have in Approaching God

And today,

U: Until I come, devote yourself to the public reading of Scripture, to preaching and to teaching. I Timothy 4:13

autumn inspiration week day 4

In I Timothy 4, Paul is encouraging Timothy as the church in Ephesus is facing some struggles. He is encouraging Timothy, in a pastoral sense, to keep pointing the church in the right direction.

I love this chapter, as a reminder of the right things to do, and as a strong encouragement for those in a position of leadership.

Command and teach these things. Don’t let anyone look down on you because you are young, but set an example for the believers in speech, in conduct, in love, in faith and in purity. Until I come, devote yourself to the public reading of Scripture, to preaching and to teaching. Do not neglect your gift, which was given you through prophecy when the body of elders laid their hands on you. I Timothy 4: 11-14

These verses are so special to me -
- “Command and teach these things.” (Listed in previous verses)
- “Don’t let anyone look down on you because you are young…but set an example….”
- “Devote yourself to….”
- “Do not neglect your gift….”

Aren’t those some encouraging reminders?

These reminders help us to keep our focus where it needs to be - on instructing wisely, on being bold in our love for God, on sharing God’s word, and on using our God-given gifts.

As we devote ourselves to the public reading of Scripture, this reminds me that we need to be meeting regularly with the congregation in church. We have much to learn from meeting together and sitting under good teaching. (Pray for your pastors, that they would hear clearly from God!)

How do these verses apply to where you are right now in your walk with God?

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This is the Confidence

This is Autumn Inspiration Week and I’m sharing thoughts on Bible verses that begin with the letters in the word autumn. You can start with reading
A: Ask, Seek, Knock
U: Unless the Lord Builds the House

And today we’re looking at the next verse -

T: This is the confidence we have in approaching God:
that if we ask anything according to his will, he hears us. I John 5:14,15

confidence in approaching God

As a parent, my children sometimes all talk to me at once. Uncertain as to if I’ve heard them, they all start asking me, “Did you hear me?” or, “Is that ok?” or “Are you listening to me, because this is important!”

When they are all talking to me at once, it’s hard to hear, process what they’re asking, think about an answer and then actually answer them.

I realize that God is all-powerful, all-knowing, and all those strong, wonderful things, but the concept of Him hearing millions praying at any one time? It boggles my mind! I can’t process 3 requests at once (well, not often anyway), yet God can hear us all at one time and answer as He sees fit, for our very best.

Not only can He hear us, but we’re given a promise that He will hear us, that He does hear us, if we ask in His name.

Let’s note - this does not mean that He promises to answer in the way we might want Him to. Remember, He is God, we’re not. He promises to hear us. And let’s think - out of all the people in the world, how many promise to hear us? I can tell you, if I’m being honest, there are days I don’t hear my husband when he is talking to me. It’s not because I’m tuning him out, it’s just that there is so much going on that I have to fight to find his voice.

Friends, it’s not like that with God!

When we pray, He hears us. He hears us! The God who created us, who fashioned us, who placed us on the earth at this particular time, He doesn’t leave us, He stays with us, and hears us!

And even when we can’t pray, when all that we have are the groanings of our hearts, when we ask of God, in His name, He promises to hear us.

It’s THAT simple.

And it’s THAT amazingly grand!

And if we can trust God’s promise to hear us, let’s trust that He will work on our behalf, for our good, and for His glory!

The one who calls you is faithful, and he will do it. I Thessalonians 5:24

What a blessing that God has given us!

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Be Still and Know

Let’s just start this get-together by making sure we both have some coffee, or tea, or whatever your warm beverage of choice may be. Life has been a little bumpy here lately, and it’ll be better to sit and chat over our favorite drinks. Here, in this space, there is only grace.

Be still and know that I am God

Life doesn’t always go how we plan, does it? The past few weeks have been nothing short of “spectacular” in the amount of things that have gone a little awry. It’s been a long month of learning patience, because I started praying for that again, rather than pursuing perseverance. There’s something so heart-warming about the verse in Psalm 46:10 -

“Be still and know that I am God….”

Since returning from our vacation in mid-August, I was thrown into 10 meetings the following week. Some of these were orientations for school, but not all. The most amazing part of it all is that I’m not even a paid employee, just a volunteer. I love the school we use, though, and it’s been a perfect fit for our family, so I’m happy to be able to have an opportunity to learn and be able to give back!

Our first week of school was rough - some technology issues, some back-to-school protests (not just by the children…!), and the beginning of attempting to internalize our new schedule.

Be still…

Our second week of school was better, and worse. Better, because we added in all our extras - therapy, piano, some class time with a teacher. Worse, though, because we lost a beloved teacher. Apparently she quit on the first Friday of school, and no further information was given.

On our first day back to therapy, both therapists reported some conversations about God, or about church - makes a mama’s heart proud to know that whatever struggles we’re facing with our son, Jesus is getting through to his heart! We have a long road ahead of us, in terms of things that will happen this year, but I know it will be a great opportunity to gauge how much he’s learning and growing.

and know…

Our daughter had her first sleepover, here at our house, over the weekend. What fun! She’s really needed some good friends, as life with two brothers can get a little messy at times. The giggling and laughter of little girls was so much fun to listen to! I love that she has this friend, and a couple other good friends at our small group!

And here we are, into week 3 of school. We’ve had a Music class for our 9th grader that would not work, no matter what anyone tried. As of this week, it’s officially working! The staff worked together to find what wasn’t working correctly, and worked to get it fixed! And this week, I’m finding that I’m going to have to tweak our schedule a bit, in order to fit in everyone’s piano practice, schoolwork, church activities, and our family times. I’m sure I’ll miss a meeting, or forget to do something on my list.

But do you know what I’ve found, friends? I’ve found grace and peace in learning patience. Before, these issues would have combined to set me into some eye-twitching, panic-mode stress. Now, though, I’m realizing these things are all out of my control, and so there’s no point in spending time, energy and stress on them. Rather, these things are helping me focus on Jesus, on resting in Him.

that I am God….

And do you know? Jesus offers only grace.

If you’re needing grace today, you’re at the right place. There’s nothing here but grace. This side of the computer screen is just as imperfect as your side - but friend, don’t you know? It’s perfectly imperfect! And that’s what you’ll find here - not perfection, but rather a whole heap of genuine!

Going ahead, I’m hoping for smoother days, but I’m also grateful that God is in control; we have only to be still!

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Come Away With Me

I’ve been really craving some family time lately. With the end-of-year rush with school, and all the extras that go with that, I felt like I was seeing my family, but really only for the business side of things - the schoolwork, piano lessons and recital, crossing paths on the way to one meeting or another. So, I did what any wife might do, and asked my husband to plan an outing for our family. But that’s not the entirety of this story. See, I’m a very structured and well-planned person. My husband is very laid-back. This outing, truly and genuinely about family time, is also about me learning to let go and just go with the plan - especially when I don’t know all the details. So, come away with me as I take you through a journey of fun, family and faith!

Come Away With Me 1

Our grand adventure began with getting on the road a little later than I had hoped. There were a few things we had to do before we started out, but we got going with a happy, rowdy set of kids. We were off to see lighthouses in Delaware! We were doing great until we hit some traffic and I began to stress about the amount of time it took to get to where we were headed. I may have pulled out the map a few times to point out how far we still had to go. BUT - we got there. A little later than I hoped, but we arrived at Fenwick Island Light, at the Delaware/Maryland border. The sun was out and it was a gorgeous lighthouse! Tim loves lighthouses, and that’s rubbed off onto all of us.

fenwick island light

From there, we headed on to the next light - not a lighthouse, but a lightship! Apparently there are not too many lightships that you can actually tour, so we were all looking forward to this! We stopped for some lunch and ice cream on the way to the ship - that always makes everyone a little happier! Aboard the ship, we had THE BEST tour guide! Fortunately, our tour consisted of just our family, so we were able to move around a little more freely than if we had others in our group. The tour guide was patient with our kids, he answered their questions, he asked them questions based on what they seemed interested in, and he made the history of the ship quite fun! The ship was built in 1938 and there were some amazing historical artifacts including Time magazines from 1941, and a World War II newspaper. The stove in the kitchen was original to the ship and there were pictures of what the ship looked like before some major restoration took place. The ship sat in the Delaware Bay for 2 years at a time, with a crew of no more than 14, including the officers. We learned so many fun facts about this ship!

lightship 2

As the day went along, and as we were all having fun together, I began to realize that this business of letting go and trusting someone else with the plan was going well. It was still hard for me, but the kids were happy, the sun was shining, and we were having a great time together! My favorite moment on the ship was when I got a gentle nudge & a few seconds later there was this picture. Love!

Us

After time aboard the ship, we took some time to run around the playground and the area near the ship. The kids used the time to burn off some energy and we enjoyed hearing them in a wide-open space, rather than in the confines of our van. I was still thinking about the time, the schedule and when we needed to move on, but listening to the laughter, standing in the cool shade of some trees with my husband, and enjoying the beautiful weather were winning out! The kids wanted a picture on this little boat and so we were happy to oblige. I spent about 2 minutes trying to get them together for a nice, posed picture. You know - something perfect. What we got, though, was so much better than perfect - we got authentic and I will take authentic over perfect any day! I love the details of this picture - our older son is lounging about, quite relaxed and content with life. He’s making his own space in the world and is comfortable there! Our daughter is on the edge, dangling her feet in some adventure, while keeping securely planted in the safety of life. Our younger son? Well, he is intentionally pointing forward, yet looking backward. I asked him more than once if he wanted to look and point in the same direction. Nope! This was the pose he intended. And in his mind, I’m sure it symbolizes something amazing; I just don’t know what that is. I could venture some guesses, though. Maybe he’s indicating that he cannot see the way ahead, unless he is learning from what is in his past. Or maybe he is trying to tell me that the best we can do is plant our feet, aim ahead, and keep an eye out for those around us. Truthfully, I don’t know, but I love that they all had aspects of their own personality evident in this picture!

overfalls 2

We ended the day with a drive to see the Delaware Breakwater Lighthouse. We got to walk on the beach, which the kids loved, we saw some wildlife and got to talk to some of the staff who monitor the wildlife. The lighthouse was gorgeous in the late afternoon sun, and being perfect would mean I’d be posting that picture here. But often, love and authenticity are even better than perfection, and so rather than post the lighthouse picture, which was the point of this part of the outing, I’m going to post the picture which ended up being the best part of this outing!

Best Day 1 -1

When I let go, and stopped looking for perfection in myself and in everyone else, I had a really great time! Our family needed some fun, leisurely time together, and we achieved that goal. Special thanks to my husband, who planned our grand adventure! And because of his ability to let go, to be laid back, to go with the flow, he was open to Day 2 of our adventure! Join me again tomorrow, and come away with me for more of this adventure!

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The Big One

from meltdown to breakthrough || rebekahmhallberg.comA few weeks ago, we went through “The Big One” - one of the biggest meltdowns/breakthroughs that we’ve ever had with our son. It was “the big one” in terms of the severity of the situation. And I was so torn, as I knew that it was progress, yet it was so hard to see that in the midst of everything that went wrong.

He struggles with imperfection. If he has created it (in any form – written, drawn, crafted, etc.) and it’s not perfect, then ultimately, it’s not okay in his mind. We’re working so hard to change that, but please, for a minute, consider the stress that the need for perfection puts on us as adults. And now, realize that our son has just turned nine years old, and already carries more need for perfection, due to his special needs, than I carry as an adult. It’s devastating when something doesn’t go right.

I don’t want to go into all the details of what happened. But here’s what I want you to know: I came out of that meltdown, which occurred at one of his therapies, bruised and battered. He struggled with an issue regarding perfection and everything in him just boiled over. It was the most difficult thing that I’ve ever had to go through with him.

Today, I realized that the bruises, the cuts, the physical reminders of that day are gone. I don’t fear taking him for therapy, as I did the week after this all happened. I know that if things go wrong again, we will find a way to work them out with him.

The emotional damage took its toll, and while I am not afraid of him or of dealing with him, there is still a place in my heart that hurts. My pain, though, is not because this did happen, but because it had to happen; because he *had to* process through all of this in order to make a breakthrough.

Being a parent to a child with special needs can be so difficult at times. But there are gifts at every turn, and that’s what makes this a breakthrough, not just another meltdown. I won’t have scars to remind me of all of this; his efforts at communication are better; he had one successful time of not hitting a sibling as a form of retaliation.

But even better, a friend stepped up to say, “I want to know what you deal with.” Let me give you a minute to digest that. What a blessing! Ultimately, it means that our son has another advocate out there in the world – someone with whom he knows he is safe. For him, in a world of uncertainty, another friend is really the best gift!

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