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Happy New Year! Do you make New Year’s resolutions? I don’t have a lot of success with sticking to them, so I really don’t make any. I love the concept of one word to focus on in the new year, and this year my one word is HOPE.

This past year has been so rich and full for me - many amazing signs of growth in my own life, within my family, at my church. We have seen God’s hand of blessing in many areas.

Last year was also a time of some incredible difficulty in our home, and one that we won’t soon forget. However, I can already see God at work to make things better, less awful, more holy.

And that gives me HOPE.

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I love this passage in Isaiah 43:16-19 -

This is what the Lord says—
he who made a way through the sea,
a path through the mighty waters,
who drew out the chariots and horses,
the army and reinforcements together,
and they lay there, never to rise again,
extinguished, snuffed out like a wick:
“Forget the former things;
do not dwell on the past.
See, I am doing a new thing!
Now it springs up; do you not perceive it?
I am making a way in the wilderness
and streams in the wasteland.

Wow! God promises them that He is doing a new thing, despite all the hardships they had faced.

I am counting on God to prepare a way for me in the new year. I am trusting that He is the same yesterday, today, and forever, and that He will shepherd me and lead me in the new year.

Because I have spent some time feeling broken, and not knowing where else to turn, and God has to be enough. I have to trust in Him to prepare a way, to help me perceive the new things He is doing, to provide streams in the wasteland.

My hope, my one word - my Hope - is in God.

When my heart was overflowing in His goodness - Hope.

When my days were long and very normal - Hope.

For those days I could not move - Hope.

To remind me that He was making a way - Hope.

As I stood at the doorway to 2014, it was a good time to look back, to thank God for the Hope he provided. It was also a special time to thank Him for the many times that He made a way for me, to remember the streams He provided in the wilderness days of my year.

I’m entering 2014, taking all the God-moments from last year, and looking ahead with One name on my lips - Jesus - and with hope in my heart.

Hope. It’s my one word for 2014.

Happy new year, dear friends!

 

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Top Ten - A Year in Review {Part 4 - the Top 3 Posts of 2013}

This week I’ve shared posts that look back at the Top Ten posts of the year. Today we’re down to the top 3 posts. I’m so blessed that you are here to share this journey with me! I’m praying that the words shared here this year have made a difference in your hearts and lives. All of this - the words, posts, interactions - it’s all to God’s glory! Now - on to the top 3 posts.

If you missed the first 3 posts in the review, you can read them here:
Part 1 - numbers 10 & 9
Part 2 - numbers 8, 7 & 6
Part 3 - numbers 5 & 4

Without further ado, let’s take a look at the Top 3 most-read posts of 2013.

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Number 3 - The “About Me” Page

If you’re going to take a journey with someone, you probably want to know a little about them, right? This is the page, on my blog, where you come to find out more about who I am.

Rebekah“My purpose at this site is to support and encourage other women in their various roles - whether it’s wife and mother, sister and friend, co-worker, church leader, or any of a number of other areas where we find ourselves. I offer encouragement for real life, and a place of respite for when our duties consume us. I share thoughts from everyday life because it’s in our realities that we find common bonds.

In early 2013, I felt God calling me to combine the blog posts, and begin to approach this as a ministry, more than as a recounting of my life, as many mom blogs start out doing. I discussed my thoughts with my husband and he encouraged me to pursue what we both believe God has laid on my heart.

This blog started in March of 2013, and already God has blessed me with some great interaction here, and some other wonderful opportunities for writing. I’m so excited about what’s to come, and at the same time, I’m completely humbled that He would use me.” Continue reading by clicking here…

 

Number Two - A Man Called Poppy

“Last week I wrote about sending our son to kids’ camp, and how I was a little uncertain of how it would all go, mostly because of his special needs. As we do with most new things in life, we decided to give him the opportunity to preview the campground at his own pace. We decided to take a drive to the camp, since it’s just an hour from our home, to let him see where he will be spending the week. We drove around the grounds and didn’t really see anyone, but that was okay. We enjoyed a nice lunch at a local restaurant, and then decided to drive back and look at the camp one more time on our way home, just to make sure our son seemed okay with the lay of the land. It was then that we met Poppy.

If I were to tell Poppy he had been “an angel” on this journey, he would probably find some humble way to dismiss the comment and remind us that he was just a retired man who volunteers his time as the maintenance man at the campground. And while that is true, today, he was another person who is going to help make our son’s time at the camp one of the best weeks ever!” Continue reading by clicking here…

 

And, the Number One post of 2013: Dear Weary Mom {Don’t Get Up. Not This Time.}

dearwearymom_button_white“Dear Weary Mom,

{Don’t get up. Not this time.}

Juggling all that life throws at us is chaotic sometimes. We meet ourselves coming and going at the door. We spend time creating a schedule, watching it fill up, realizing we’d rather be doing other things. We show up at activities tired and stressed, probably having mediated a sibling argument along the way. It’s tough to keep our own hearts steady when all around us can seem so volatile. But, dear weary mom….

I see you. I can find you in a crowd. You are my kindred spirit in the world of motherhood.

What would I say to you that might make any difference? I’m not sure, really, except maybe that I am walking a path similar to the one you are walking.

I think about you when I drag myself out of bed each morning. Somehow, I haven’t learned the fine art of getting to bed early enough on a regular basis. As I quietly enjoy my coffee, I sit and read a short devotional, focusing on starting my day with a word from The One who truly knows our journey – yours and mine. My strength can only come from Him.” Continue reading by clicking here…

 

I am so humbled to have this space to share together. Thank you for being here, reading posts, sharing my heart, and walking this journey with me! I’m looking ahead to 2014, full of HOPE! I can’t wait to share more on this journey with you!

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Top Ten - A Year in Review {Part 3}

Today we’re continuing in our Top Ten series, looking back over the year at the Top Ten most read posts. Today, we are at numbers 5 and 4 in the series. One of these is a page that tells about our family, not just a typical post that I wrote. Reading back through it reminds me of how far we’ve come.

If you missed the first 2 segments, you can find them here:
Part 1
Part 2

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And now, on to today’s posts.

Number 5 - Our Journey (you can find this page up top, just under the header)

our journeyI posted this on Facebook a while back, but never got it moved over to the blog, so I wanted to do that. It’s more for my “collection” of stories, but it documents our journey across the years, and I don’t believe I have that as fully in any other post.

February 7, 2025 - If you’ve been following our journey with Picasso, we have a much-awaited update and finally some answers on our end.
Some background for you:
*Picasso - famous for artwork left on walls, beds, cabinets - often with pen, and sometimes Sharpie. Twice, with nail polish.
*He is almost 7 years old and we’ve been searching for answers for quite some time. (Update 2013: almost 9!)
He was born in May of 2004, after a tough pregnancy, but he and I were in good health. He was a very needy baby and had quite a period of ups & downs through his very early years. Tim & I knew that something wasn’t right, but we were really never able to put our finger on just what was wrong.
We began to seek out consults with our pediatricians but there was nothing they were able to find medically wrong. We apologized to more than one friend, on more than one occasion, for our son causing injury to their child(ren). We had serious doubts about our parenting skills, but then we’d have long periods of great behavior, and a lot of learning and growth. Continue Reading by clicking here…

A few weeks ago, we went through “The Big One” - one of the biggest meltdowns/breakthroughs that we’ve ever had with our son. It was “the big one” in terms of the severity of the situation. And I was so torn, as I knew that it was progress, yet it was so hard to see that in the midst of everything that went wrong.

The Big OneHe struggles with imperfection. If he has created it (in any form – written, drawn, crafted, etc.) and it’s not perfect, then ultimately, it’s not okay in his mind. We’re working so hard to change that, but please, for a minute, consider the stress that the need for perfection puts on us as adults. And now, realize that our son has just turned nine years old, and already carries more need for perfection, due to his special needs, than I carry as an adult. It’s devastating when something doesn’t go right. To Continue Reading, click here…

 

Tomorrow we’ll round out our countdown with the Top 3 posts of this year. I hope you’re enjoying a review of this year, and this look back at the Top Ten posts. I’m enjoying seeing what God has done, and how He continues to direct our paths!

 

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Top Ten - A Year in Review {Part 2}

This is the 2nd in the series of the Top Ten posts for this year. I’m enjoying reading through these again, and I pray they are a blessing to you as well!

If you missed Part 1, you can read it by clicking here.

These posts give you just a snippet from the original post. To read the whole post, please click where it says “Continue Reading” at the end of each snippet.

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Number 8 - 5 Things to Know About the Mother of a Child with Autism, Part 1

This is the first in a series of 5 posts dealing with understanding a mother of a child with autism. The series is originally authored by Amy Fenton Lee, is being used with permission, and can be found at the blog for The Inclusive Church. As April is Autism Awareness month, I’ll be posting this series each Monday in April. I wrote these posts 2 years ago, and will update as needed.

5 Things to Know about the Mother of a Child with Autism

As the mother of a special needs child, I am often searching for information, answers, direction. I recently came across a blog by Amy Fenton Lee, who writes for The Inclusive Church, a site with many tips for churches and parents with special needs children. Amy’s blog provides a lot of affirmation for thoughts that I seem to constantly have, and for feelings that Tim & I are dealing with on a daily basis. You can read Amy’s blog here. Continue Reading…

 

Number 7 - I Thought I Knew Brokenness

I Thought I Knew Brokenness

A few weeks ago I wrote Beauty in Brokenness. Two days later, my world, as I knew it, was falling apart in front of my eyes. I had no idea, as I was writing that post, of just how much I would need those words for myself. So much of what I write is for all of you, as I share my life stories and experiences and any bits of wisdom that I might have. I thought I knew brokenness, but I’m really just learning. Continue Reading…

 

Number 6 - 5 Things to Know About the Mother of a Child with Autism, Part 2

I’m excited to share Part 2 from Amy Fenton Lee’s blog series on “5 Things to Know about the Mother of a Child Diagnosed with Autism”. Again, this focuses on understanding the mother of a child with autism, but applies well to both parents. This is an excerpt from her well-researched and carefully prepared series. Please click here to read her entire post. I’m running this series each Monday this month, for Autism Awareness month. If you missed Part 1, you can find the link at the bottom of this post.

5 Things to Know about the Mother of a Child with Autism

“Part 2: She may experience the conflicting emotions of grief and hope.

While grief is natural part of any special needs parent’s journey, it is experienced and processed differently for the family affected by autism. However, the range of possible outcomes varies even more dramatically for the autism diagnosis compared to other disorders and disabilities.

So, should a mother grieve the life she envisioned for her child? Or should she buckle herself in for a bumpy ride…remaining hopeful and doing everything humanly possible to help her child reach their full potential? Sadly, the pressure is great to keep silent and process her emotions alone. In fear of creating a self-fulfilling prophecy for her child’s future, a mother may remain tight lipped, avoiding conversations revealing her daily realities…. Continue Reading…

 

Tomorrow we’ll continue looking through the top ten posts. I must say, these have been some of my favorite to write, and I’m glad to see that they got a good number of views.

Blessings - and I’ll see you again tomorrow!

 

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Top Ten - A Year in Review {Part 1}

At the end of this year, I thought it might be fun to do a Top Ten to finish up the year. I got the idea from my brilliant and lovely friend, Chris - check her out at Campfires and Cleats! (You won’t be sorry - she’s wonderful!!)

I have enjoyed these months of sharing this time and space here with you. I’m looking forward to some amazing things that are in store for next year. When I started this writing journey, I was hopeful that I’d get a few opportunities to share outside of just my blog. Next year will find me here, regularly, but also contributing at several other sites. I’m so blessed - and completely humbled - to have these continued opportunities for outreach.

I am so thankful that you are on this journey with me, to live outside my box, to adventure boldly through life, and to trust Jesus for the whole journey! Blessings to you, and I hope you will continue with me for the year ahead!

Without further ado - let’s look back at the Top Ten from this year.

 

Number 10 - Dear Weary Mom {Stop Comparing}
“As moms, don’t you find that we’re always comparing our kids and ourselves to other families? It’s so unfair, and can be so painful at times, yet we keep doing it. We believe that God created our children as He did, for a reason. And we might even believe that He created us as He did, for a reason.”

Dear Weary Mom {Stop Comparing}

“But along with that, God already knew what kind of mother we would be, and gave us many of our strengths and traits to be used as mothers. What if we believe that He created us to be the mothers that we are, for a reason?” Continue Reading…

 

Number 9 - God’s Big Dreams {For Your Life}
“This week we’ve talked about dreaming big dreams. I’ve shared some of my personal big dreams, and some of the big dreams we’re dreaming with and for our children. Just as we have dreams for our children, our parents have dreams for us. But I wonder – do you know that God, your heavenly Father, has big dreams for your life?”

“The very familiar passage when talking about God’s plans for our lives is Jeremiah 29:11 – “For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the Lord, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.” But the verses surrounding that particular verse hold some great truths in knowing that God already has plans for our lives. Jeremiah 29:10-15….” Continue Reading…

Tomorrow I will have the next 2 posts as we count down to the number one post from 2013. I’m enjoying re-reading through these, and seeing what God has done in my life and heart over this year. I pray they are a blessing to you as well!

I trust you’ve had a very merry Christmas, and that you are looking ahead with anticipation to what God has for the new year!

 

 

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What Are Their Stories?

I like to watch people - I love to imagine what their stories might be. I wonder what they’re doing, where they’re going, and why. I wonder what has brought them to this point - the point where they cross the path of my life, and I wonder where they will end up. People truly intrigue me - who are they, and what are their stories?

What Are Their Stories?  Our paths cross for a reason || rebekahmhallberg.com

Recently, I had an opportunity to talk with a stranger. Through a series of events that I do not understand, I was on the other end of the phone when they called.

Broken, hurting, full of doubt and fear - I got all that from the first sentence.

We talked for about 15 minutes, and I don’t have any idea if anything I said to her was helpful. We prayed together before she hung up the phone. I don’t know why she called, I don’t know why I was the one who answered, but I hope that it brought some peace into her life.

As we consider Christmas, I sometimes wonder - why did the angels pick those shepherds to appear to? Why not shepherds in a different field, who were also keeping watch over their flocks?

What were their stories? What did they need, on that particular night, that seeing Jesus could provide to them? Did they need encouragement? hope? peace? Did they need it more than other shepherds who may have also been nearby?

How about the wise men? Were there none who were closer, in order to celebrate Jesus’s birth on time? Why were these the wise men sent to meet the new King?

We don’t know their stories - history may be able to tell us a little more about them, but we’ll probably never know exactly why it was these particular people who are mentioned as participants in the Savior’s birth.

It’s the same for us - we may not know why we cross paths with someone. It may seem to be for no particular reason, but it may be a stepping stone on their journey, or maybe on ours.

In this season of Christmas and celebration of Jesus’s birth, as you cross paths with someone, remember that maybe you are meeting them for a reason, a purpose. Maybe you are the only glimpse of Jesus that they will see this season. Be open to what God sets before you.

In whose life will you be a part of the story?
What do they need that God has set in you, to provide for them?

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The Prodigal Son’s Brother

The story of the prodigal son, found in Luke 15:11-32, is probably pretty familiar to most of us. The younger son decides he wants his share of the inheritance. He heads out into the world and soon squanders it all. A famine hits the country and the son has to take a job feeding the pigs. Finding himself to be so hungry that he is willing to eat the food he is feeding to the pigs, he considers his own father’s servants, and how well they are cared for, and decides to return home to his father. He is warmly greeted, celebrated, and loved! What a wonderful picture of God’s love for us - while still in our sin and worldly-ugliness, He runs to us, forgives us, and the angels rejoice that another sinner has come Home!

But what about the brother of the prodigal son?
He never strayed; he didn’t run out and squander his inheritance.
He didn’t leave his father’s side.
He wasn’t celebrated, but watched the celebration for his brother.

prodigal son's brother

All that we are told about the older son is that he stays - he remains with his father. He questions the celebration for the wayward younger brother, and becomes angry when the details are shared with him.

When his father comes to him, his reply seems so appropriate - so raw - so reflective of his frustration:

‘Look! All these years I’ve been slaving for you and never disobeyed your orders. Yet you never gave me even a young goat so I could celebrate with my friends. But when this son of yours who has squandered your property with prostitutes comes home, you kill the fattened calf for him!’ Luke 15:29,30

How do you feel about “death-bed conversions”? People who have had their whole life, who have heard of Jesus, who have ignored Him, and then choose Him in the last moments. Their lives may have been ugly, filthy, seemingly worthless - and maybe they have even gone against every social, moral, ethical and scriptural rule in their treatment of people. Yet, for some reason, they decide to accept Christ in their final moments.

I am thrilled for them! Our lives - yours, mine - we’re just one mistake, one poor choice, one unguarded act - away from the same kind of life that these others have had. Wouldn’t we still want the hope - the Hope - of salvation if we were the one facing our final moments?

Now, the prodigal son may not have been in his final moments on earth, but he was pretty close to being without any hope. His money was gone, there was a famine, his access to food must have been severely limited if he was considering a meal of pig slop.

He was almost without hope.

And then he made the right choice - after so many wrong choices. He realized that what he thought was hope turned out to be hopeless. He realized that when he had put hope in his own abilities, it turned out to prove hopeless.

And then he realized the true Hope - his father, his salvation, his source of life. His capital-H hope. And so he did the only thing he could - he went home to Hope. And what happened next?

Hope came running.

So he got up and went to his father.
But while he was still a long way off, his father saw him and was filled with compassion for him; he ran to his son, threw his arms around him and kissed him. Luke 15:20

And he was saved. And safe. And full of hope - and Hope.

The older brother - the one also hurt by the younger brother’s decisions - he is filled with anger. Here stands his brother, who has made wrong choice after wrong choice, who has hurt the family, probably ruined reputations, squandered wealth and riches.

…and that younger brother is welcomed home…
to hope.
And to Hope.

safe at home

I have been a Christian pretty much all my life. I grew up in a Christian home, I was taught about Jesus from the time I can remember. I chose Jesus very early on, and really didn’t waiver. That is my testimony - that I found God early, and really never let go of Him. By some standards, it’s a rather boring testimony. I don’t have story of miraculous rescue from addiction or struggle; I didn’t make horrid choices. I stayed with Jesus.

But really - that’s a beautiful testimony, isn’t it? God is faithful - God has remained faithful! And I have been saved, safe, and protected from so much that others have had to struggle with.

What about those in our lives - yours and mine - who have squandered their Father-given gifts? I am so quick to extend grace - and Grace - to those who I don’t know; to those whose issues or worldly-wrongs haven’t directly affected me. Do you find the same to be true?

Why can we extend grace to those we don’t know, yet we struggle to extend grace to those we do know? Why did the prodigal’s brother have such a hard time forgiving his own sibling, but may have forgiven a stranger much more quickly?

Maybe because pain is very real. Maybe because for as much as we would like to view ourselves as Christ-like, the reality is that we’re still human. We aren’t actually Christ. We can only ever be Christ-like.

When we are hurt, angered, betrayed, it’s human nature to put up walls, to defend our name, our honor, our own life. We want revenge, or justice, retribution, vindication. We wonder why, when we stay on the straight and narrow, bad things happen to us. But isn’t that the way of this cold, cruel world?

“I have said these things to you, that in me you may have peace. In the world you will have tribulation. But take heart; I have overcome the world.” John 16:33

Jesus lays it out for us - we will have trouble in this world. At the same time, isn’t that the key, dear friends? We will have trouble in this world.

“For this world is not our home; we are looking forward to our city in heaven, which is yet to come.” Hebrews 13:14

This world is not our home. We were not created for this world. We were created to live in this world for just a little while, and then to have eternity with Jesus! And so we will have trouble here - because this isn’t our home. This world is just our journey to our Home.

And so for me, and for you, we will suffer; we will endure heartache and hardship. It’s meant to point us to Jesus - to help us keep our eyes on Hope and Home.

And our Father, who created us, knows our hearts. We can express all of our feelings to Him. We can tell Him, as the older brother did, just how angry we are at the seeming injustice. We can point out how we haven’t strayed, we haven’t been a black mark against the family, we haven’t disgraced our father, or our Father.

And I love the answer that the father gives to the prodigal son’s older, more faithful, brother:

“‘My son,’ the father said, ‘you are always with me, and everything I have is yours. But we had to celebrate and be glad, because this brother of yours was dead and is alive again; he was lost and is found.’”

Those of us who have the testimonies of staying near to God, as the older son stayed near to his father, we have access to God - we always have. We have all we need in Him - we always have. We have all of who He is, working on our behalf - we always have. We have all of the things that God can provide, and all He can do for us - we always have.

Isn’t it just like Jesus to tell such a story of hurt, betrayal, anger, frustration, faithlessness and faithfulness, and then to end with the only thing that’s truly important?

At the end of it all, isn’t salvation the only thing that’s truly important?
Isn’t that the only thing that’s truly of worth in this life?

for when we are the prodigal son's brother

When you are hurting, and when I am hurting, whether it’s pain from a loved one, or from someone who doesn’t even know us, let’s remember the end of the story - this story in Luke, and this story in life. Let’s remember that while our lives may look like that of the prodigal son’s brother, we are one step, one action, one unkind choice, away from being the prodigal ourselves.

Dear friend, and to my own dear heart,
if you or I were the prodigal,
wouldn’t we LONG for the Father to see us a far way down the road
and come running to receive us Home again?

Friends, truly that’s all that matters, isn’t it?

Salvation.

We can be saved, from pain, from fear, from hurt, from death.

The end of the story is life.

Life.

Who can we take with us? How many other broken hearts can we gather and take Home to the Father? The Father is waiting - whether we have remained steadfast, or whether we have taken every path except the right path.

Luke 15 is made up of 3 parables, each one talking about loss of something precious. In each parable, Jesus describes the rejoicing over the salvation (the finding of) the lost item. Those who don’t stray, those who remain faithful - their reward is in heaven. The angels have already rejoiced over their choice of salvation. They were lost and then they were found. Just like the prodigal.

I tell you that in the same way there will be more rejoicing in heaven over one sinner who repents than over ninety-nine righteous persons who do not need to repent. Luke 15:7

If I was lost, or if you were lost - no, when we were lost - heaven rejoiced over our salvation! Remember, trouble is ours in this world - anger, frustration, pain, hurt. But this world is not our home. Our home is with our Father, whether we are the steadfast brother, or the prodigal brother.

Our Home is with our Father.
And He saw us a long way, far off down the road,
and gathered us up when we came running to Him.
And He will do the same for all of us,
prodigal or steadfast.

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