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What Are Their Stories?

I like to watch people - I love to imagine what their stories might be. I wonder what they’re doing, where they’re going, and why. I wonder what has brought them to this point - the point where they cross the path of my life, and I wonder where they will end up. People truly intrigue me - who are they, and what are their stories?

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Recently, I had an opportunity to talk with a stranger. Through a series of events that I do not understand, I was on the other end of the phone when they called.

Broken, hurting, full of doubt and fear - I got all that from the first sentence.

We talked for about 15 minutes, and I don’t have any idea if anything I said to her was helpful. We prayed together before she hung up the phone. I don’t know why she called, I don’t know why I was the one who answered, but I hope that it brought some peace into her life.

As we consider Christmas, I sometimes wonder - why did the angels pick those shepherds to appear to? Why not shepherds in a different field, who were also keeping watch over their flocks?

What were their stories? What did they need, on that particular night, that seeing Jesus could provide to them? Did they need encouragement? hope? peace? Did they need it more than other shepherds who may have also been nearby?

How about the wise men? Were there none who were closer, in order to celebrate Jesus’s birth on time? Why were these the wise men sent to meet the new King?

We don’t know their stories - history may be able to tell us a little more about them, but we’ll probably never know exactly why it was these particular people who are mentioned as participants in the Savior’s birth.

It’s the same for us - we may not know why we cross paths with someone. It may seem to be for no particular reason, but it may be a stepping stone on their journey, or maybe on ours.

In this season of Christmas and celebration of Jesus’s birth, as you cross paths with someone, remember that maybe you are meeting them for a reason, a purpose. Maybe you are the only glimpse of Jesus that they will see this season. Be open to what God sets before you.

In whose life will you be a part of the story?
What do they need that God has set in you, to provide for them?

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Weekend Wrap-Up

Welcome to the first weekend wrap-up! I’m not sure yet if I will be doing this every weekend, or not, but it fits well for today.

This particular blog is just a little over 2 weeks old, and I want to thank those who are reading and along for this adventure! I’ve learned so much in the past 2-3 weeks as I’ve been working to get this set up, and I’m finding that there’s always just a little more to learn. And this is where I’d like to take a minute and thank the blogging network that I’ve joined - Inspired Bloggers Network - see that blue button over on the side? These are a group of bloggers who work to support and help each other learn and grow. Their help has been extremely valuable to me and I’m grateful!

Here are the links to the post, in chronological order. Please feel free to read any you’ve missed, or share any that seemed helpful.

Welcome! - a welcome to the new site and new readers; a little about who I am.

When Forgiveness is Difficult - “That’s the thing about conviction: you can feel the conviction and do nothing, or you can let it help change you to who you need to be.” The journey to learning to freely forgive.

A Grand Adventure - a “world trip” in one day

My Oxygen Mask - intentionally taking time for ourselves as the caregivers, to be able to help those for whom we care

My Oxygen Mask, part 2 - part 2 of the discussion on intentionally choosing to care for our own needs

It’s Friday but Sunday’s Coming! - a reflection on Good Friday

Waiting for the King - He died on Friday, would rise again on Sunday, but Who was the One we were waiting for?

5 Things to Know about the Mother of a Child with Autism, part 1 - the first in a series of understanding mothers (or parents) of children with autism - can be applicable to other special needs. This series will run on Mondays in April.

Jumping In With Both Feet - thanking the one who really encouraged me to begin this journey!

Can We Be Real? - the first in a series of discussions on authentic relationships. Part 1: The Real Me. This series will run on Thursdays, for the month of April.

Ultimate Blog Party - are you a blogger? This is a great place to link up and meet others!

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Waiting for the King

Yesterday I shared some thoughts on Good Friday, and an amazing video that reminds us of what Jesus did for us on the cross. But do you know the One for whom the world was waiting? They were waiting for the king - the King of Kings.

Jesus died on Good Friday, and rose on Easter, but what about Saturday? I wonder how many people were disappointed while waiting for the King. I wonder how many had seen his miracles and now were so confused that He was dead, and buried, with the stone still rolled in front of the tomb?

I wonder if they were shocked that this man who had healed so many people and raised the dead was stuck behind the rock and not using the same power for Himself. I wonder if they questioned all of the miracles they had seen and heard about. I wonder if they gave up on him and decided to go about life as if they’d never crossed his path.

I wonder if they realized that He was a different kind of King. He was not a King who would come blazing in with an army and conquer the world. Rather He was a King who was coming to change hearts and lives.

This video tells us a lot about this King - the King who willingly suffered death on a cross and burial in tomb, all so that we could have Eternity with Him.

I wonder - do you know Him? Are you waiting for the King? Easter is a wonderful weekend to get to know Him. He died, He was buried, but on the third day He rose from the dead. He is alive! He is not in the tomb anymore. The stone was rolled away and the King is with His Father in heaven. Have you made your decision to choose Him? This King seeks to rule your heart, but leaves the choice to you. Will you choose Him? Have you chosen Him? As we wait this Easter weekend, can you say, “That’s MY King!”

Some people are still waiting for the King. They don’t realize He has already come to pay the price for us, and that He will come back someday. We can rejoice this day before Easter, knowing that He is alive!

 

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‘Twas the Night Before Therapy - A Condensed Poem

It’s the night before Picasso’s intensive, and there’s so much to do, but sometimes I like to just sit and be. Choosing to rest, on purpose, seems to do a lot of good for me. The poem, “‘Twas the Night Before Christmas” came to mind as I was thinking about the night before therapy. I looked up the poem, and had a little fun, in my mind, rewriting it to fit my “night before therapy” evening. I figured I’d go ahead and jot down what I had in mind, because sometimes we just need a little random fun in our lives. However, I did not realize JUST how long the poem actually is. So I just chose a few stanzas to modify, as that was much easier! Without further ado, here is “‘Twas the Night Before Therapy” - a condensed poem. ;-)
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“‘Twas the Night Before Therapy”
‘Twas the night before therapy, and all through the house,
The schedule was posted for the kids and the spouse.
The clothes were laid out on the sofa with care,
Knowing that morning soon would be there.
The children were snuggled and tucked into bed,
With hopes they’d remember all that I said.
As I packed our bags, including his cap,
I silently wished I could take a long nap.
After sleeping all night, there arose such a clatter,
I jumped out of bed to see what was the matter.
Turned out that the noisy and gigantic crash,
Was just him preparing a bag for the bash.The sunshine might glare on the new-fallen snow,
Necessitating sunglasses while we’re on the go.
When, what to my shaded eyes might appear,
But maybe less traffic than we’ve seen in a year.Being the driver today, on our route I did stick,
I knew I’d get lost if new ways I did pick.
On 476, the traffic was much the same,
I gripped the wheel and called out his name.Picasso! Picasso! See trucks and see cars!
See cycles and vans and police cars with bars!
Down the road we will drive, to our exit with all
Of the many drivers headed toward Granite Run Mall.He gobbled his lunch and did some of his work.
Doing work on the drive is a homeschooling perk!
And using a pencil for poems and prose,
He completed his work and didn’t even doze.

We drove steadily, though not as quick as a missile,
And walked into therapy, giving nods and a whistle.
And I heard him exclaim, as he walked down the hall,
“I’m ready for therapy, I’ll give it my all!”

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Early Mother’s Day Card

On Tuesday, Picasso had an online class with his teacher. Each student was supposed to share something they’d learned, something they hoped to learn next year, something they’d made/enjoyed this year, and one or two other things. I wasn’t entirely sure how it would go as the thought of having to share seemed to be causing him some serious anxiety. However, when it was his turn to share, he did an excellent job. He seemed genuinely pleased by all the kind comments that his classmates made.
The teacher then wanted to help the kids make a Mother’s Day card. I offered Picasso some plain paper, but he preferred the lined paper. He turned the laptop away from me & told me I wasn’t supposed to watch or read the card until he said I could - which was later that night. When I got to read the card, I asked him if he came up with the words or if the teacher had helped. He said that he chose one from the top and one from the bottom. I think that meant she might have had a couple different ideas on the page and they could pick from them. So while the words are not originally his, they are perfect. I love that he included the date - and even though it’s not yet May 13, 2012, I was allowed to go ahead and read the card.
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Compromise -OR- O, April Tree

Shortly before Christmas, I wrote about how we had an opportunity to practice flexibility by learning to compromise. If you haven’t read that post yet, take a minute to check it out because it’s amazing to me that Picasso & Tim came up with a great solution to the struggle that was such a burden for our son.Go ahead - take a minute to read through it. Then come back here to read the update. I’ll wait. ;-)Ok - here’s the update.

We decorated the “main” tree with a lot of silver & red decorations with white lights and a few of our sentimental ornaments mixed in. It looked lovely! I enjoyed sitting in the glow of the Christmas lights many evenings!

Just after Thanksgiving, a local store was having a sale on artificial, 4-foot, pre-lit Christmas trees. They were a good price so I went and bought one. That tree went in the upstairs hallway, and the kids could pick any of their traditional ornaments to put on it. They were excited!

The (new) plan (in my opinion) was that we could have 2 trees, simultaneously, for Christmas. It was, I’ll admit, a lot of fun to have a second tree this year, and it’s just the right size for a cozy corner in the hall. Perfect!

I was really excited about this plan - and that the compromises worked well.

Christmas came & went and much fun was had by all!

And before we knew it, the time had come to undecorate the tree. I didn’t even try to suggest we undecorate the upstairs tree first. I knew it would just be ridiculous to suggest that. So we proceeded with undecorating the downstairs tree.

A few days went by, and the upstairs tree remained. Early January passed - and yet, the tree lingered. Hmmm. I began thinking about how to approach the subject.

See, in my mind, we had two trees, so after Christmas, we could undecorate both. That (to me) solved the issue of having to keep a tree up through January. And, theoretically, Picasso had agreed to this. At least, I thought he had.

Again - what was I thinking? When I suggested we undecorate the tree, Picasso was NOT a happy camper. “You said we could keep it up till the end of January!” No arguing with that. Yes, that’s exactly what I said, and I planned to keep my word and encourage the compromise. “Ok, honey - I was just asking if you were ready to take it down.

And then, it happened.

Picasso: “Mom, this tree is not in the way downstairs because it’s upstairs in the hall. Can we leave it up all year?”

Me: “All…..YEAR?”

Picasso: “Yes, Mommy, all year.”

Me: “Um…. Um…. Um…. You’re going to have to ask Daddy.”
{I really had no answer. I didn’t even know what to suggest. Hence, chickening out of answering passing the decision to my husband.}

Picasso: “Ok! Thanks, Mom!”

A few hours later and he was home from work.

Kids: “Daddy, DADDY!!!!!…….”

They proceeded to ask him if they could keep the tree up all year.

He looked at me.

Tim, v e r y slowly, while processing the question: “You want to keep the tree up all YEAR?”

This time, ALL the kids joined in:
“Yes! We want to keep it up all year!”
“We really like it!”
“It’s SOO pretty!”

Tim: “Um, I guess that’s ok - IF you will keep the tree vacuumed, and wipe off the ornaments from time to time.”

Kids: “YAY!! Ok, we’ll do that!”

And that’s the story of how we *still* have a Christmas tree up in our house…in April.

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Stars and Stripes Ideas

I was searching for some patriotic ideas on Pinterest and am sharing a few of my favorites here. Check out the full board for more great stars and stripes ideas!

 

These strawberries look easy to make. Melt the white chocolate and dip the strawberries. Then, dip the covered strawberry into some of the blue sugar crystals. (You can find these at most craft stores, in the cake-decorating section.) Then set on wax paper to let them harden. If you’re not a chocolate-lover, you could dip the strawberries into white icing, and then into the blue sugar crystals. To get those to set, you’d probably need to let them harden in the fridge. Enjoy!

 

This looks like a fun craft that would add a touch of patriotism to your house. It could also be a very nice gift for a friend or family member who has served in the Armed Forces. This could also be a kid-friendly craft, especially for little hands. You could buy the letters at the craft store. Doing one letter at a time, cover the front in glue and then dip into red sequins or glitter. The individual frames finish it off nicely!

 

This is a project that can be as easy, or as detailed as you’d like to make it. I pinned this picture for use as a project for small hands. Cake-baking and frosting are things that little ones can help with. You could use straws and string or ribbon, and decorate with small pieces of patriotic ribbons that you can glue together at the bottom. If you’re more creative, or not having small hands participate, you might frost the cake and add your own decorative touches on top, or around the sides.

 

 

This one caught my eye because it seems so easy! Choose your size of styrofoam wreath, and then buy the patriotic-colored umbrellas to just stick into the styrofoam!

 

 

 

 

There are a lot of other great ideas over at the July 4th Pinterest board - ideas with licorice, lollipops, candles in tin cans, and more! Stop by for some great ideas! Happy summer!

 

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Wordless Wednesday

Ocracoke Island Lighthouse
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Home!

There is nothing better than being home. Although, I loved this vacation SO much. The kids were wonderful, the drive was beautiful (except that the downpour really slowed us down, but even that was pretty), the weather was chilly which was ok, because we were trying to avoid HOT. We got done everything on our list of things we wanted to do. We would have loved an additional day at the beach, but we were there for one full day, and it was perfect!

I was hoping to post daily while we were gone, but the place we were staying had limited wifi access and it wasn’t enough to load pictures or stay online long. So I’m posting a few recap posts over at my other blog. I’d love for you to stop by and check them out - the first one is here.

The best part of the vacation was seeing wild horses in the northern part of the outer banks. They were AMAZING. Absolutely beautiful! I’ll post those pictures another day. If you’re a fan of the movie “Nights of Rodanthe” you’ll enjoy knowing that I could open the door where we were staying, and look up a few streets and see the house from the movie. Beautiful!

So - stop on over to check out the lighthouse post. I’ll be posting regularly again here in a few days. I have to catch up on vacation laundry and all that fun mommy stuff!

Wishing you a wonderful Easter!

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A Touch of Nostalgia, Part 2

The Record Player
At this time of the year, there are so many choices in Christmas music - no matter what type of music you like, there is something for you! And we all have our reasons for what we like, and for what we don’t like. I love some of the old classiscs: “White Christmas” by Bing Crosby; “The Christmas Song” by Nat King Cole; “Have a Holly, Jolly Christmas” by Burl Ives. Yes, those classics!
I love them because I got to play them on records at my grandparents’ house - same grandparents who lit their house with big, colorful lights. I’m sure I scratched a record or two (or more…!) much to my grandparents’ dismay. However, they still let me change the records, they still let me pick some Christmas tunes, and those songs helped set the tone for Christmas.
There were plenty of records to choose from, and I don’t remember too many times when there wasn’t music on. I’m sure there were times when it was quiet - maybe when I was playing Atari, or when my brother and I needed to take a nap.
My mom owns a record player, and one of the most fun things is to hear my own kids coming home from her house to tell me what records they listened to. They really like the Snoopy & The Red Baron record. It’s so fun to know that the traditions are living on for my kids.
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