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Yesterday, our family visited a piano factory and showroom as we began our search for a newer piano for our home. The beauty, the music, the craftsmanship - they were all breathtaking. The greatest lesson we came away with, though, had to do with the craftsmanship in making the pianos, and even the talent in playing any of the pianos in the showroom. We learned what really matters.

It’s not the tool in the hand that matters;
it’s whose hand the tool is in that makes the difference.

If you take three different pianos, each a different make and of a different value, and let a person who has never taken lessons play the pianos, you’re likely to not hear much of a difference, except maybe in the tone of the sound.

Take those same three pianos and let a trained pianist play them. You’ll be amazed at the music that they can pull out of the instruments. The same instruments which seemed of very little worth when played poorly, or which seemed to have very little distinction from one another, are now making masterpieces because they are in the right hands.

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Apply that same principle to the Bible. We probably all own a Bible, maybe several Bibles. Chances are, we read our Bibles with some regularity, right? We probably have our favorite verses and passages underlined or highlighted.

But if our Bibles were to play the tune of our life, would it be a simple, maybe-melodic tune, or would it be a moving, beautiful masterpiece, as played by a world-class musician?

Where does your Bible live? Mine seems to get moved around as I read it in one room, and then another. But I’ll be honest - a lot of Sunday mornings, I’m trying to remember where I left it as I race to get ready for church in time. What does that tell you? That consistency isn’t always my strength.

Take that same Bible - the one I can’t always find - and give it to a Christian who is longing for their very own Bible.

The Bible takes on a completely different worth in that person’s hands. It’s a gift, a treasure, a masterpiece. Chances are, the person holding the Bible will devour our favorite passages. They will read it for all it’s worth, where I’m likely to try to read a few words. They know what really matters.

In our Bibles, we have a precious tool - one that gives us hope, one that details how we can live life to the fullest, a tool that can beautifully shape our lives.

But we’ve become comfortable - maybe even complacent - in our lives.

We have the most valuable tool for living life, but we hold it with hands that live in comfort and complacency.

Friends, God is calling us out of our comfort zone. We have been given God’s Word, and when used properly, it can make our lives a beautiful instrument for God’s use.

What if we decided that we would treat our Bibles as the treasure and precious gift that they are? What if we vowed to know where our Bibles are, at all times. What if they started to fall apart from frequent use?

By God’s grace, our life song would be a masterpiece that captures the attention of those around us, and points them to Jesus!

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Friends, we have a powerful tool in our hands. We live in an area with such easy access to God’s Word. Many Christians around the world do not have that same access. They would love the Bible in their hands, even in their own language. We are blessed, we are so very blessed.

Let’s treat our Bibles as the powerful, valuable tools that they are. Let’s read and use our Bibles in such a way that honors those who cannot easily access a Bible. Let’s treat this tool that can help to create a masterpiece of our lives, with the reverence and respect it deserves, as God uses this tool to create beautiful masterpieces for His glory!

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Back to the Basics

Each morning I wake up a little earlier than I need to, because I like to ease into the day. I don’t like being rushed and I don’t like just jumping into a day. I can’t stand the snooze button on the alarm clock because I lose valuable time to just be. Truth be told, I rarely use an alarm clock anymore. I plan to do something valuable with each day - whether it’s to catch up on the laundry, bake some homemade goodies, go a little above and beyond in the cleaning, or write something that you will hopefully bless someone.

The fact of the matter is, though, that those things don’t often get done. I get sidetracked by an email from school or a call that must be made, I forget to eat breakfast and so I have to stop and get back into the routine. If you’re anything like me, you probably find yourself in the same kind of situation - juggling schedules, longing for routine, forgetting a meal, trying to do all the good things. So today, let’s step way back - back to the basics.

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Dear friend, in all our schedule-shuffling, meal-making, and life-living, we need to check and make sure our foundation is solid. Today’s that day. If we do nothing else today, we will check for a solid foundation, and that will be enough! It won’t take long, but it will be so valuable for today, tomorrow, and the next day, and the day after that.

First, whose day is this?

This is the day the Lord has made; We will rejoice and be glad in it.
-Psalm 118:24

When we pause and remember that this is God’s day, that He has created it for us, we can find a renewed sense of purpose and direction. As God what His plan is for you in this particular day.

Second, who loves you?

I have loved you with an everlasting love; I have drawn you with unfailing kindness.
-Jeremiah 31:3

Do you understand that? God, the Father, the Creator. He loves us. HE loves us. He LOVES us. He loves US. No matter what we’re waking up to face on any given day, we have God’s love to strengthen us. God woke us up today for a reason, and whatever that is, His love will carry us through His plans for us today.

Third, who do you love?

Jesus replied: “‘Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind.’ This is the first and greatest commandment. And the second is like it: ‘Love your neighbor as yourself.’”
-Matthew 22:37-39

There’s a beautiful acronym for the order in which we ought to love. When you follow this simple acronym, you get JOY.

J - Jesus first
O - Others next
Y - Yourself last

Do you have JOY? If not, check whether you are loving in the correct order.

For today, just back to the basics, because sometimes we all need that reminder to check that our foundation is solid.

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Believing in our Significance

Significance. Worth. Value. Purpose.

What if we believed in these words? I mean, truly believed in the power behind them.
Sure, we believe in these words, as they relate to others.

We believe that people have significance, we believe that people have worth and value.
We probably even believe that people have purpose.
No doubt we attribute some of these characteristics to certain professions -
doctors, nurses, educators, pastors, leaders, and others.

What about ourselves, though?

Do we really believe these things about ourselves?
If I’m being honest, I know I don’t always believe these words about myself.

Do you?

What if we did believe these words about ourselves?

What if we believed we were as deserving of these words as anyone else may be?
What if we truly believed that we have

significance,
worth,
value,
purpose.

What would our lives look like?

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I have had several kinds of conversations recently that got me thinking about these things. The first kind of conversation is the one where you sit with a friend and as you talk you express, to them, the value that they bring to your life. You talk about the qualities they have that make your own life more worthwhile - maybe their sincerity or their loyalty, perhaps even their humor. You spend time thanking your friend for this role they have in your life.

And then it happens.
Your friend says they don’t believe you;
they don’t really see that they offer those qualities in the friendship.

Now at this point, several things run through my mind, in no particular order.

First - Would I sit here and say these things to my friend if they weren’t true? Would I offer this as my perspective just for the fun of it?
Second - I believe in my friend; why doesn’t my friend believe in their own potential that they’re already making use of in the world?
Third - How can I make these statements to my friends in a manner that would cause an impact in their lives?
Fourth - What if my friends truly believed these things about themselves?

The second type of conversation that I’ve had recently, that has me thinking about our significance, worth, value, and purpose has also been with friends. A friend and I might be in conversation, and they begin to express their gratitude for qualities I bring to their life, as a friend. I sit there and listen to what the person says, and then it happens.

I look at them and say something like,
“But am I really making a difference in your life?”
I don’t really see that I’m offering those qualities in the friendship.

Or maybe we discuss the things we do - as moms, as women, as leaders, as mentors, as friends, but we fail to grasp the impact that we have in doing these things.

One of my favorite movies is It’s a Wonderful Life.
The main character, George Bailey, gets an opportunity to view life, as he knew it,
but with one twist: he’s never been born.
The people he knows, the town he lives in, all of life as he knows it - continues to go on.
But he sees how vastly different it all is because he is not there.
While he feels frustrated in what his life has become,
through choices he made in tough situations -
he’s a small-town building & loans official
who can barely stay in business thanks to the major bank in town
-
he sees that his life has impacted many, just because he was there.

 

What did he do that was so impacting in their lives? Really, not much. He went to work, he was a family man, he was a friend to many. He offered who he was - the traits and characteristics that made him who he was - to those with whom he came in contact.

And it made a lasting impact,
to the point where life was vastly different when he was not in it.

So what holds us back from viewing the lasting impact that we can make on others? What prevents us from finding the value, worth and purpose in the opportunities we have, whether it’s our family, our job, our ministries, or even (for me) our writing?

The answer is shockingly simple. So simple that, surely, there must be more.

The enemy does not want us believing that we can do any good, or have any significance, or be of any worth or value to someone.

That’s it. Right there.

That is the reason we don’t believe that we are significant, or of worth. That is the reason that we don’t believe that we have purpose, or that the tasks we’ve been called to have any value.

The enemy wants to block us from that because he knows that if he can block us from believing in our own significance here on Earth, then our lives won’t impact others as they were designed to.

Dear Friend,

God put us here, in this day, for a purpose!

He could have formed us and placed us at any spot in history. He could have put us in the early church, or in the generation prior to cars being invented. He could have placed us in the middle of the deserts of Africa if that was His plan. We may have grown up in war-torn lands, or in highly influential families if that was where He could use us.

But we are here - you living your life, and me living mine - as we are, in the capacities that we are (wife, mother, leader, writer, for me), for a reason.

If we believe God to be Who He says He is, then we have to believe that His plan for our lives is just that - HIS plan. He authors eternity - do you (do I) really think it’s a mistake that we’re here now?

NO! By NO means! God has a purpose, a plan for us today.

The question becomes -

If we believe God, can we trust His plan for our lives?

God is all-powerful. He created the world. He created us in the world. He placed us here, now.

That, right there, gives us an overflowing measure of significance, worth, value, and purpose.

When I sit here and wonder if these words are resonating with anyone, I have to check myself. See, God didn’t call me to write for you, or even to you. God called me to write what He puts on my heart. For Him. Maybe this is my act of worship, maybe this is the way that He knows He has a hold of my heart. Maybe my heart works to serve Him in this way. I don’t fully know.

But I do know that there is nothing else that grabs hold of my heart like writing does. There is nothing else that I labor over so vigilantly. This stuff here, it keeps me up at nights. I often lie in the darkness with something on my heart, only to realize that sleep isn’t coming until I’ve put pen to paper, or fingers to keyboard.

I love these words from the book of Esther, when Mordecai persuades Esther to appear before the king -

When Esther’s words were reported to Mordecai, he sent back this answer: “Do not think that because you are in the king’s house you alone of all the Jews will escape. For if you remain silent at this time, relief and deliverance for the Jews will arise from another place, but you and your father’s family will perish. And who knows but that you have come to your royal position for such a time as this?”

Then Esther sent this reply to Mordecai: “Go, gather together all the Jews who are in Susa, and fast for me. Do not eat or drink for three days, night or day. I and my attendants will fast as you do. When this is done, I will go to the king, even though it is against the law. And if I perish, I perish.”
Esther 4:12-16

I think that if we grasp our significance here, with a strong head-knowledge, it can make a difference in our lives.

But if we grasp our significance here,
with a strong heart-knowledge, we just may change the world.

 

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When Grace Rains Down

Last week I shared “When Grace Rains” and talked about how the storms of life can soak us through. We sometimes beg God to move us, to bring us to safety and warmth. But he does not always do that. Sometimes he lets us stay in the storm, knowing that He will guard and protect us and bring us to safety.

But what about the times that grace rains like the long-awaited storm in a drought? What about the times that grace rains like a warm summer shower, like the rains my children like to go out and splash and play in? I’m finding that sometimes grace rains, but other times - precious, sacred, and holy times - grace rains down!

When Grace Rains Down - how God refreshes and renews us as we trust in Him

Sometimes God opens a door and makes a way for us after what seems like a spiritual drought. Our souls may feel dry and desolate, but with the door that God opens, the refreshing rains pour down on us.

Sing to the Lord with thanksgiving;
make melody to our God on the lyre!
He covers the heavens with clouds;
he prepares rain for the earth;
he makes grass grow on the hills. -Psalm 147:7,8

Oh, friend - I am standing in that downpour of refreshing, life-giving rain today!

No, my life is not perfect. No, I sure don’t have it all together.

But God has a plan for my life. I don’t know what it all is, but I do know His faithfulness, made new in my life.

The road I’ve walked, to get here today, is a personal journey that God had for someone dear to me, and so I was able to learn something because I am on a journey with that person. I am still learning so much as a result of all this; it’s safe to say that my life will never be the same.

That could be a negative - my life will never be the same. I could absolutely look at the circumstances and make that a negative statement. “My life will never be the same!”

Or, I could look again, with eyes focused on Jesus, seeing Him at every turn in the road, and humbly proclaim, “My life - this one, amazing life - will never be the same!”

The thing is, we can have that every day. Each morning that God wakes us up is an opportunity to stand up, open our hearts to God, and thank Him that because of His gift of salvation, our lives will never be the same!

Sometimes grace rains, and God uses it for our growth. Other times, though, grace rains down and we have the opportunity to soak in the goodness of God’s love.

 

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